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Apr 2, 2014 Geoffistopholes commented on Savage Love.
I have been interested in the way marriage and age work together. Everyone I have ever known who married "early" (it is a relative term) are now divorced. I do not know why, some were jerks and of course it would happen; others were seemingly perfect for each other, but they obviously weren't. All of them were certain of the decision to marry. I think as we get older and have more time with environments were we don't have any baggage but that which we bring ourselves people find that they like or desire completely different things than those they were told to value (duh) and that after two or three years of growing young couples find that there is a lot they didn't know about themselves and in turn their spouse. There are also a high number of people I know that married young whose only excuse was that she was pregnant... maybe this has something to do with the young marriage issue?
May 20, 2013 Geoffistopholes commented on SL Letter of the Day: Gonna Boil My Laptop After Answering This One.
This man in no way represents the other lunatics that call Colorado home. I am not going out to meet any guys for a while in fear that one of these guys are out there waiting somewhere in Uptown or Capitol Hill smelling like dog ass with a phone full of pictures to show me when we get home...
May 14, 2013 Geoffistopholes commented on SL Letter of the Day: I'm Out.
Is it okay to not say cunt or fuck or faggot or nigger? Is that acceptable? There is no way not to use three of those words without it being loaded, the only use for them now is to be provocative. I don't think you should be crucified for using words, but then you can also just not use them and sidestep the whole issue.
May 10, 2013 Geoffistopholes commented on Coming Out In a Big Way.
I experienced the exact opposite and I think it is far more common for closeted guys (and gals) to lose any semblance of a normal or good life. I am pretty sure the closet marginalizes way more people than it forces to succeed.
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May 10, 2013 Geoffistopholes commented on Your Dog Sucks.
Dog owners: you made a choice to own a dog, that choice should not in any way impact me. I live in the city and still have to worry about stepping in animal shit. I have to put up with dog hair in my food at a restaurant. I have to be worried about being bitten by an animal, in the fucking city. This is all your fault pet owners, stop trying to pretend that it is okay and start being responsible. There is no defense to the bullshit non-pet owners have to put up with from pet owners. Also, dog shit stinks, clean it up!