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Jun 18, 2014 robt vesco, jr. commented on SL Letter of the Day: Buttrasta.
If you have a turtlehead, you know it. How could you not? So, Mr Poop knows he has a dirty butt and a turtlehead. He gets off on this. Kinks are fine, but this one needs permission first. But maybe not seeking permission is the kink, or part of it.
Jun 7, 2014 robt vesco, jr. commented on Savage Love.
If you want your mom to respect your beliefs, try telling her you respect her feelings, if not her beliefs. Why would you throw her into a situation that would be highly uncomfortable and mate traumatic.

Write her a letter and tell her you're a lesbian with a partner, and let her know if she comes and hangs out with you two, she might be very uncomfortable/angry/upset, and you don't want a family visit like that. If she doesn't want to come, that's up to her.

Letting her show up without telling her what she's in for only works on I Love Lucy or in the movies.

Of course she's a bigot. She's a bigot whether or not you judge her, so don't, and if she doesn't come around, at least you took the high road.

Apr 24, 2014 robt vesco, jr. commented on Savage Love.
Cripes, people. Of course the mom knows cigs and booze are bad. How do you know she's not worried about it? Maybe she knows there's nothing she can do to stop her ADULT kid from using it and is now focusing on something that maybe she can get him to stop. You want maybe she should have her kid committed because ... he's drinking and smoking at college?
Dec 27, 2013 robt vesco, jr. commented on Savage Love.
Jesus, POPDAQ, maybe the reason he doesn't want to propose is because you've been nagging him for almost a year, and nagging everybody else, too. His mom? Maybe if you stop nagging, he'll do it.
Aug 21, 2013 robt vesco, jr. commented on Savage Love.
In this column, Dan delivers advice to a man with a fucked up hand. In the same edition of the stranger, a discussion of pigeons with fucked up feet. Coincidence? You decide.…
Jun 13, 2012 robt vesco, jr. commented on Savage Love.
Dear NEWB ... Maybe you've got it all worked out by now, but you might consider telling your girl that you're a virgin and asking her to guide you through the act with you. Make the first time not about the act, but about learning about each other, and you won't regret it.
Mar 21, 2012 robt vesco, jr. commented on Savage Love.
Dear HSL: He's lying to you about being soul mates because the sex is great, he already has companionship, and you're young and naive enough to believe his BS.

Jan 13, 2012 robt vesco, jr. commented on Today in the Proven Connection Between Gay Marriage and Child Porn.
@5 Sorry, Sara, but I heartily disagree. The issue is precisely gay marriage and changing the language won't accomplish the goal, in my opinion. I'm gay; I'm married, I use the term, and I'm not an idiot. Controlling the language is not the solution; the solution is to get people to not jump out of their socks when they hear the term, which we are rapidly accomplishing. Eventually, when everyone can get married, the term "gay marriage" will fade away naturally, organically.

(This is wholly different, in my view, from getting people to stop using offensive terms like the N-word, F-g, R-tard, etc. These are negative terms, and the fewer kids hear them, the fewer adults in the future will use them and think it's okay.There's nothing negative about gay marriage.)
Nov 4, 2011 robt vesco, jr. commented on Savage Love.
"Your mission is to find a dominant, manly, bossy man with whom you're sexually compatible, i.e., a bossy top who wants to fuck your throat, your fist, your clenched thighs, your Christmas ham—whatever—but not your ass."

I am allergic to pineapple rings, cloves, and maraschino cherries. Way to go, Dan. Make me feel more marginalized than I already do. Just in time for the holidays.
Sep 15, 2011 robt vesco, jr. commented on Savage Love.
Has anyone asked if No Clue had an orgasm from her BF going down on her? Seems like important ground to cover. So, No Clue: You get to direct his licking the same way he gets to direct your sucking. Take your time, help each other out in this, and you'll never regret it.

Dan: You sound like an old man about the earlobes. "And those tattos and baggy pants! Why in my day, we ... and get off my lawn!"