Still Thinking
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Figuring it out as I go. Generally like people, but also need my alone time.

Jul 21 Still Thinking commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Different Day, Different Couple, Same Issues, Same Advice.
"I am the man here" - hmmm, a male who comes from a culture in which the "woman" in the relationship has to ask the "man" for permission to do things might have some cognitive dissonance with being topped.
Jul 13 Still Thinking commented on I, Anonymous.
#16 - yes - or delete a dead friend's message from text or voicemail, or ... the last message one friend sent me before she passed was a photo of 3 of her 4 kids. I haven't been able to delete her from my phone address book.
Jul 13 Still Thinking commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Stray Text Message Outs Wrong Parent.
#11 Adam - yeah. Why did Dan breeze right by that "he'll never want to have a relationship with a man?" Is that just a line he's been feeding her, or a line she's feeding herself?
Jul 12 Still Thinking commented on Savage Love.
NCA - a few months is not long enough to date someone to know if you should propose, although it can definitely be long enough to know you should Not propose. And I'm with #3 Screen Names - what's your deal with children? Note that I am a single mom with a school age child, and apparently still dateable.

BRUISE - umm, just communicate.

TPC - pookie.

MAPIP - the harder you come, the harder you fall.
Jun 19 Still Thinking commented on The Orlando Shooter Might Have Been a Twisted Closet Case.
It seems to me that the shooter could simultaneously have been inspired by varying degrees of self-hatred due to attraction to men, radical Islamic theology, and anti-Latino racism. He could also have (must have?!) been suffering from some serious psychological issues. Whatever strands there were in the tangled mess of his mind, heart and body, we can be sure the mainstream media will oversimplify, distort and misinterpret the evidence.
Jun 8 Still Thinking commented on SL Letter of the Day: Cyber-Cheating.
yes @ DonnyK #8 - - Hey LW - how do you know he boyfriend didn't delete some e-mails? How do you know there was only one secret account? And how can you be sure it has stopped? At a certain point, after you have clearly communicated your parameters, you just have to trust.
Jun 6 Still Thinking commented on 79 Percent Increase in Link's Boardings.
"There will be people who prehend it by Link (the deeper Seattle) and those who cannot."
There will be those with the money to ride light rail, and those without.
disappointing, Charles.
Jun 6 Still Thinking commented on Ken Paxton's Youth Pastor Watch.
@ 14 - because the Holy Spirit needs someone to talk to, apparently.
Jun 6 Still Thinking commented on Hillary Clinton Has Already Won the Democratic Nomination.
Pleeeeeease let this Democratic shitshow, which was not supposed to outlast the entertaining Republican shitshow, be over sooooooon.