English, been living here since 2000. Taken. Photography, heavy metal, cats, chocolate, whiskey.

May 11 Chandira commented on I, Anonymous.
Anon has a (slightly whiny but valid) point I think. I don't mind the smell at all, but if you hate it, or hate the smoke, you are kind of trapped in this city now, it is everywhere.. And unlike alcohol, smoke is hard to contain. Even vapes, or perhaps more so vapes, because people think that they don't matter, are invasive and annoying. I get fed up with getting a faceful of 2nd hand vape smoke, and same with weed.
I feel like one of the maybe 5 people in Seattle who don't smoke weed.
It is a thing I also wish people would be considerate about, honestly. You can't avoid it if you want to. Most of the time I don't mind, but I do kind of sympathize. I had a bad cold last week and it doesn't take much to set me off on a painful coughing fit, 2nd hand weed smoke included.
May 4 Chandira commented on Sex (At) Work.
And you should see what happens when men don't get what they want, Seattlebcc! Women ACTUALLY get raped.

May 3 Chandira commented on I, Anonymous.
@14 that's so sad!! Shame on the self-righteous yelpers!!!
May 3 Chandira commented on Savage Love.
No!! WWWD don't go there with depressed guy! If he's depressed there are probably other issues there that will also attach themselves to you if you screw him.
Do what YOU are comfortable with, and you don't have to conform with what other people's ideas of normal are! :)
Apr 29 Chandira commented on We Saw You Dancing at Jefferson Park, Riding a Hoverboard at Gas Works Park, and Groping a Pregnant Woman Downtown.
We have some awesome bus drivers! I think I have had that guy before. :D

Shout out to Roger on the Number 5 on weekend nights, best metalhead bus driver ever. Got me safely to Studio Seven on Friday last week from Greenwood.
Apr 29 Chandira commented on Key and Peele Are Great! Keanu Isn't..
Meh. The are either great or horrible. They don't seem to know when enough is enough and it's not funny any more. You can't keep repeating the same joke over and over.
I can't imagine a whole movie about them and kittens. No thanks.
Apr 29 Chandira commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Undercutting Remarks.
I'm sorry, but being ready or not for a serious relationship, becomes irrelevant when you fall in love for real. You're just head over heels, and all the rest of anything, doesn't matter.

Move on, find somebody who will totally fall in love with you and want you in their life for good, regardless.
Apr 29 Chandira commented on Savage Love.
nanoboy, I have Mom-envy...

NOPENIS, I have a good trans girlfriend, she's managed to find a good, loving, ltr with somebody who loves her very much for who she is, and it's never been an issue between them. She was also worried for years, that nobody would want her. Hang in there.
And I'm sorry, but there are lots of people out there who will do that to you, and it hurts, but don't let it put you off. No more hook-ups until you're friends at least, with the person, ok? :)

Good luck!!
Apr 29 Chandira commented on I, Anonymous.
Veggie Grill does actually do some pretty decent fake 'chicken' wings. No, I'm not paid to write this, I ate some, and liked them.

I also like a nice juicy medium rare Angus burger though.
Apr 26 Chandira commented on We Saw You Harassing Women Outside the Library, Being a Brat on the Bus, and Watching Porn on Mercer Island.
Why didn't anybody go tell the asshole outside the library to shut the hell up? I would have.