Jul 27 Cynara commented on A Conversation With a #BernieOrBuster About Dinner.
@11 The actual non-fascist pro-LGBT anti-war pro-choice anti-crony pick is Gary Johnson/Bill Weld. But I'm sure no one wants to hear that. There's always http://www.burnmyvote.org/.
Jul 22 Cynara commented on Free Will Astrology.
"You can only go halfway into the darkest forest," says a Chinese proverb. "Then you are coming out the other side."

See, this is why these are great, regardless of your belief or not in astrology.
May 17 Cynara commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: How Can I Be a Good Ally to My Abusive Trans Ex?.
Being considerate to preferences is a good thing, but reality is a better thing. Bruce Jenner, he competed in the men's Olympics; Caitlyn Jenner, she did not compete in the women's Olympics.

Otherwise we'll come to statements like, "My ex, Mike, cheated on me and he got pregnant with his lover's baby".
May 16 Cynara commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: How Can I Be a Good Ally to My Abusive Trans Ex?.
Since Mike is no longer around or part of her social circle, why not treat them almost as a split personality or two different people?

"When my ex-girlfriend M was mad at me, she ..."

"Mike used to be a friend, but now he ..."
May 10 Cynara commented on How to Fight Anti-Trans Bathroom Bills, According to Dan Savage.
Please support Target stores for their inclusive bathroom policy. The religious right is urging boycotts and signing petitions against them for it.
May 4 Cynara commented on Savage Love.
@23 Good post about extremes. I think it's a shame we've abandoned the "bases" of kissing, making out, and petting with a new partner instead of jumping right to intercourse.
Mar 11 Cynara commented on Free Will Astrology.
Hey Knat, nobody asked you to read it. I happen to like it. It's poetic, has nice literary references, and brings up good things to think about. I don't much believe in astrology, but I read all the signs for the inspirations.
Dec 29, 2015 Cynara commented on Savage Love.
There are apps that can contact someone if you don't respond in a given time period, but as @3 says, you wouldn't be any less dead.

http://www.techlicious.com/tip/free-pers…
Dec 20, 2015 Cynara commented on Savage Love.
Re rape fantasy: See if she has some favorite scene from a "bodice-ripper" novel that you can read and re-enact as a starting point.
Nov 26, 2015 Cynara commented on Savage Love.
@43 I was pondering the other day why "cocksucker" and "sucks" are pejorative. I'm not sure it's based in homophobia. My theory is that it refers to someone who does it to ingratiate themselves with a superior and obtain favors, similar to "brown-noser" or "ass-kisser".