commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Longest Read
A lot has been covered in these comments, but one piece of advice I would give LW is to work on listening to your gut a bit more in therapy. On some level you knew that this guy was getting into dtmfa land. The sooner you can hear that little voice the better off you will be.
Aug 22, 2014
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Jacked Around
Forgiven vs tolerated vs accepted. Seems like a women studies major would be sensitive to the difference. Hmmmm
I hope that reading these comments will lead to an epiphany.
Jan 24, 2014
commented on SL Letter of the Day: What You Got, Slog?
Something clearly has changed. After all that time together I'm surprised and disappointed that he won't trouble shoot this more. Depression could also really be a factor - she might not have the energy. Maybe a trip to the doc and the shrink to sort that out would be helpful, and as her spouse he has a responsibility to help her when she can't help herself. Isn't that what marriage is for?
Sep 27, 2013
commented on SLLOTD: Asshole Comes Easy
Could you, or have you, tried talking to your boyfriend about engaging in a healthier lifestyle? Not necessarily just for looks, but also to be a stronger, healthier person. Relationships are marathons, and they are never perfect.