Azul
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Jun 20 Azul commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: New Father Wants a Threesome Right Now.
As a mother to a young child, you nailed this one, Dan. Spot on.
May 2 Azul commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Soft Serve.
I do *not* agree with Dan's approach at all! Lately it seems like he just doesn't get women...

Don't mention the masturbation. Show her you're into her by following up, and like nocute says, don't wait too long. I also agree with Seandr... Next time, say something casual in the moment. NBD.
Apr 15 Azul commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Strap-On Tools.
Agree with @1. As a woman, if I received a message like that from someone I was planning to get together with (and considering sleeping with), it would be a big turn off. Unless we had already explicitly agreed we would sleep together.

The strap on in and of itself would not be a problem for me. Just the presumptions of the email (there will be sexual activity) and no regard for the game... Which is so much of the fun!
Feb 17 Azul commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Ex Files.
@ 80, thank you, ofcookiesandrhetoric, for your post. Well said.

LavaGirl, I am totally with you in all that you've said. I am saddened by the lack of sensitivity that seems to make up the default position of so many posters here. And Dan too... Just no concept of what it means to carry life inside you, wanted or not.
Oct 19, 2015 Azul commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Problem With My Gay Brother Isn't That He's Gay.
@9, I thought the same thing...
Apr 28, 2015 Azul commented on Savage Love.
Agree with crone... there are some pretty attractive 62-year-olds (my mother-in-law is 62, gorgeous, and could pass for 50 up close, 40 from a distance.) 62 does not equal 85!
Jul 22, 2014 Azul commented on SL Letter of the Day: With Mistress Matisse!.
Impressive! This advice is perfect!
Nov 14, 2013 Azul commented on SL Letter of the Day: Over & Out.
@14: I haven't posted here in a long time, but I wanted to share my condolences... so sorry for what you've been going through.
Sep 5, 2012 Azul commented on SL Letter of the Day: Free Spirit, My Ass.
@20: the question was originally published Feb. 12, 2009
http://tinyurl.com/c5dgqc

I wish we could get an update too!
Jun 3, 2012 Azul commented on Savage Love.
Ok, I guess my comment @ 243 was pretty much what mydriasis said @ 181... in reading through a few more comments I see there is lots of good advice!