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Jan 5, 2011 Yawgmoth commented on Savage Love.
Way to be completely condescending to EPL just because you don't "get" the whole pet-play thing. Guess you don't have to be GGG to give advice these days.

Also, I really liked how you basically told SOS that she should show her boyfriend that she's insecure and borderline bipolar by liking something and then getting shitty over it later. That's exactly what she needs to do to have a healthy relationship.

I think danny boy needs his nap before he responds to any more letters because this week and the last two have all been shit.
Dec 29, 2010 Yawgmoth commented on Savage Love.
I like how you told #1 that he'll never change and #2 that he or she might change. Really winning on that whole consistency front.
Dec 25, 2010 Yawgmoth commented on Savage Love.
MOM's mom should file a fucking divorce if she's unhappy. But apparently she'd rather be a bloody martyr than leave an abusive asshole, and she'd also like to have her cake and eat it too by doing what he accuses her of and then soaking up all that delicious martyrdom pity. Everyone involved in that letter is reprehensible and beyond redemption because they're too busy getting their emotional rocks off by playing their disgusting little roles to actually attempt something crazy, like changing dynamics for anyone's long-term benefit.
Dec 8, 2010 Yawgmoth commented on Savage Love.
I read this while eating lunch. I regret nothing*!

Dec 1, 2010 Yawgmoth commented on Savage Love.
@2: Fuck you. Plenty of guys don't want a threesome because it's a hassle, because they prefer to focus their attentions, because the the girls that would be up for it are skeezy, because any number of reasons. Amazingly enough, it's not at all uncommon to not be into a threesome any more than it's uncommon to be not into eating seafood.

Dan: Please, for us reading this, please define the exact amount of care we should have about our partner, relative to their own level of give-a-shit. Because apparently if I care about giving as much as I get, I'm making "macho drama" and accepting an answer of "you can't but I don't care" is being a dick. So please, pull out a 30 gauge needle and draw that line indicating the field of "acceptable amount of empathy for my partner's enjoyment". Or just let us know how much of a hypocrite you are, that's fine too.
Nov 23, 2010 Yawgmoth commented on Savage Love.
@33: screw you, you're the reason guys are terrified of asking women out. The chance that they turn out to be some feminazi harpy like you is worse than getting hit by a car.
Nov 17, 2010 Yawgmoth commented on Savage Love.
Sorry, not gonna spend $200 to see what advice you gave to some incredibly inane letter.

Also, I was really hoping this was gonna be about aliens.
Nov 2, 2010 Yawgmoth commented on Savage Love.
@1: I'm hoping the "bible tied to a rope" bit was metaphorical, but then again I have social worker friends and they have stories that trump that.
Oct 20, 2010 Yawgmoth commented on Savage Love.
@15: Yes, what she is doing is emotional abuse. It's reprehensible and her being attacked does not, as Dan put it, give her a "get out of being a human free" card. She is knowingly causing her husband distress and she is knowingly doing something he has expressly told her he is not comfortable with and rather than getting therapy and trying to actually work through her own issues and the issues of her marriage, she's just ignoring her husband and his wishes and running off to fuck her boyfriend. That's not helpful to anyone, that's just being avoidant and making a bad situation even worse.

If the boyfriend isn't a completely terrible person, he will understand when she says "we need to cool it for now because it's ruining my marriage." If PTSD isn't a completely terrible person, she'll cool things off with her boyfriend until she gets her head in gear because what she's doing is killing her marriage and if I were the husband in this I would already be talking to my lawyer.

It's a *relationship*, kids. That means you put at least a modicum of thought towards each other's feelings and wishes once in a while. If you can't do that, then you shouldn't be married - open or not.
Oct 20, 2010 Yawgmoth commented on Savage Love.
I read TMF's letter and the first thing I thought was "man I wish I had two working penises, that would be awesome." I have no idea how that would work biologically speaking, but it would make getting laid a lot more interesting.

I have spent too much time thinking about this already.