May 31, 2014 Snowguy commented on Savage Love.
*throw (facepalm)
May 31, 2014 Snowguy commented on Savage Love.
12: just because a guy ejaculates doesn't mean he enjoyed himself.

Frankly, the idea that the man is primarily responsible for her orgasm is pretty damn Ann Landers. I am surprised to see someone through it out here.
May 15, 2013 Snowguy commented on Savage Love.
@ 22/Ninalyn: I thought of all those Nice Guys(tm) out there who get angry when gals use them for emotional support, and then run back to bad boy boyfriends for sex/love.

Those Nice Guys(tm) gripe about how gals they like will not engage with them in a sexual relationship, and how the women treat them like playthings for wicked ego-boosting tease sessions or something. In short, the Nice Guys(tm) sound just. like. you. From what I can tell, Nice Guys(tm) feel entitled to sexual access, based on their attraction to the woman and the female's social interactions with them. The Nice Guys(tm) get mad when they find out a woman had very limited interest in Nice Guys(tm) and she was reserving the sexy times fun for others. Just like you do.

Nov 26, 2012 Snowguy commented on SL Letter of the Day: Bros Before Hos.
Tell her to go tell him. Give her two days.
Oct 24, 2012 Snowguy commented on Savage Love.
9/21: preach on.

The second letter struck me a long-winded version of the following: "Dan, I broke up with a Mr. Steady Provider and had sex with a Wild Bad Boy. I am now back with Provider, but miss sex with Bad Boy. How long should I wait after I marry Provider, have a kid with him, and buy a house before I can cheat with Bad Boy and claim 'it just happened?!'"
Oct 16, 2012 Snowguy commented on Good Advice From Violentacrez, the Man Outted As Reddit's More Infamous Troll: "Be nice.".
80, this says it better than I could:

Sir Thomas More: Go he should, if he were the Devil, until he broke the law.

William Roper: Now you give the Devil benefit of law!

Sir Thomas More: Yes, what would you do?

William Roper: Cut a road through the law to get after the Devil? Yes. I'd cut down every law in England to do that.

Sir Thomas More: And when the last law was down, and the Devil turned on you...where would you hide, Roper, the laws all being flat? This country is planted thick with laws from coast to coast......Man's laws, not God's, and if you cut them down......and you're just the man to do you really think you could stand upright in the wind that would blow then? Yes. I give the Devil benefit of law for my own safety's sake.

--A Man for All Seasons

The sentiment applies equally in social conventions with less force behind it than law. But hey, don't let little things like ethics and principles get in the way of a self-righteous moment, right? We've all been there, me included.
Oct 16, 2012 Snowguy commented on Good Advice From Violentacrez, the Man Outted As Reddit's More Infamous Troll: "Be nice.".
I understand the concept that people should not say anything they are unwilling to stand behind. And this guy was apparently engaged in long term activity, so he is not exactly able to plead "oops" here.

But try to keep in mind that in any type of conflict, the weapons your side deploys will usually, eventually, be turned on you and yours.

So for all you cheering on Gawker, think of how you will feel when it is not this fellow getting "Gawkered", but rather some party you feel more sympathetic towards. Say a young gay man living in a tough part of the country for his type gets found out by a hostile local church? Still cheering on the tearing off of anonymous protections, or saying "no privacy should be expected!"? Not me. Not in that case.

In my view, this is kind of a Nazis-Marching-in-Skokie moment. If you want to protect anyone's privacy in posting, you have to find it in you to support this guy's. You don't have to like him, but you have to like the protection afforded generally, and extend it to him in this instance.
Oct 15, 2012 Snowguy commented on Savage Love Episode 311.
Who else is glad that Allisor is attending pointless rallies and spending her time raging on internet boards rather than doing whatever else it is that unmedicated cranks do?
Oct 7, 2012 Snowguy commented on Savage Love Episode 310.
"find a real man. "

"I'm sorry, but your husband sounds like more of a baby than your baby."

Man-shaming. Never gets old for some, does it?
Sep 20, 2012 Snowguy commented on Texan Lynches Empty Chair.
"No president has *ever* had the vitriol thrown at him, from wide-spread threats to his life, from knee-jerk criticisms over everything he's ever done or said until Obama."

Your over the top insistence does not make this any more true, it only evidences how little you know of America's history of political calumny.

"The burden of proof is upon the instigator to convince us it's not racially motivated. Until then, it's reasonable to assume that a conservative in Texas is a bigot, and made a symbolically bigoted gesture against Obama."

Guilty until proven innocent, they call that in other contexts. My, not only are you over the top, but willing to give people a chance to prove they are NOT witches. You are great American!