Jul 2, 2009
commented on Savage Love
everyone is so quick to say that NSA's bf doesn't actually want this. i'll give her the benefit of the doubt when she said he "agreed right away". There is nothing wrong with wanting a good fuck, and getting it. it doesn't make her a bad person, esp since she's being honest and the bf's on board.
hopefully it all works out! Although even if he learns to treat her as roughly as she wants the real question is if he enjoys it or not. my ex and i experienmented with some BDSM and even though i could beat him properly, it didn't really get me off. but i guess being "rough" is different than BDSM, so it'll prolly work out, right? uh..maybe.