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Jan 18, 2014 bedelia commented on Do What You Love, or Just Get a Job Already?.
Many (a majority?) of jobs in this country, whether they pay well or not, neglect to think of their employees as whole and valuable human beings who deserve a fulfilling and well-rounded life. Unfortunately not everyone gets to do what they love all the time, but that doesn't mean that they should be working in jobs that they hate where they are treated like shit. Many unbearable jobs would improve dramatically if they were more supportive of their employees.

DWYL is absolutely elitist. People working at minimum wage now have no extra time, energy, or the necessary money to pursue their dreams. It is essential that those who are lucky enough to do what they love support the formation of better quality jobs and work to ensure that those around them are being taken care of and valued.
Jul 10, 2013 bedelia commented on What's Your Sexual Orientation?.
Queer is also a nice catch-all word for someone who doesn't care to be too specific, or someone who feels the terms gay/straight/bisexual are too limited.

Like maybe you are an androgynous person who likes guys but also likes girls sometimes. Maybe you'd prefer to call yourself queer.

I also like the word queer because it's all-inclusive. It could be anything!
Jun 11, 2013 bedelia commented on Dan on Last Night's Colbert Report.
Awwww they hugged!
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Feb 17, 2013 bedelia commented on SL Letter of the Day: Baby Talk.
It's distressing to me that people come here and share honest, sincere advice/anecdotes, bravely and generously offering up their personal stories, and then other commenters shit all over them. WHAT IS THE DEAL.
Jan 4, 2012 bedelia commented on SL Letter of the Day: Monogamish Week, Day 2.
... I think it's just unclear that that letter was related to the one above it. Which apparently it is. Right?
Nov 24, 2011 bedelia commented on Baking with Joe.
Thank you so much for sharing that blog, I'm already in love with it!
Nov 1, 2011 bedelia commented on Buckley Vs. Baldwin.
I don't know much about Buckley. What I do know is that James Baldwin is one of the most beautiful people ever to have graced this planet. And he is sorely underappreciated.
Mar 1, 2011 bedelia commented on She Wuz Robbed.
She deserved to be in the bottom two but damn she's a good lip-syncher, better than Alexis jumping around like a overly excited mouseketeer. And Shangela needs to shut the fuck up about corn.
Feb 16, 2011 bedelia commented on Today in Cinematic Nostalgia and Fantasy.
Speaking of Drag Race, how come no one is talking about the awesome 3rd season?