commented on Savage Love
Alright, bi-girl, here's your play. You're trying to dom, like you've been, and your gf whines "this isn't the right tone." You say "Never mind my #@$%ing tone, shut up and bend over." That establishes your dominance within the scene, which is something she claims to want, which is what the tone issue is likely about. Plus, you get to tell her off.
f it turns out she doesn't like that, then perhaps she's more into seeing you try and tearing you down. Tell her you're not into that.