LavaGirl
Sunshine Coast, Australia.
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An Australian woman( not a girl- my 4 yr old granddaughter was playing one day-… more »

1:43 AM LavaGirl commented on Savage Love.
In a physical sense of course, smouldering young Marlon. He could have changed his tshirt. Grease spots are not very sexy.
Better still, just take his shirt off.

8:09 PM yesterday LavaGirl commented on SL Letter of the Day: Psychopathic Tendencies.
Smartest person in the room how?
He doesn't sound like he has a whole lot of emotional intelligence, so maybe he better rethink that part of his self description.
May 22 LavaGirl commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Two Birds, One Stone.
Just conjecture @ 46. Sublime Afterglow.
Our kids go to Universities too. Maybe not cross country so much, and parents do instill attitudes in their children. Not such a good job with this girl.
May 22 LavaGirl commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Two Birds, One Stone.
I'm guessing this girl, LW1, has married a man with money. Did her parents ok this Union because of that?
Yes teenagers are little ratbags, the thread between parent and child is mightily tested. To let an 18 yr old girl marry a man in his 30s, without kicking up an almighty stink.. Is unfathomable to me. Yes we don't know if her parents kicked up a stink. She doesn't throw it in there, with all her other callous words.
This girl has zero affection for this man. And if an older man wants a younger woman, he needs to put in the effort to keep appealing to her physically. As well as probably paying the bills.
Damage done with this pair.
May 22 LavaGirl commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Two Birds, One Stone.
@36.sorry.. Forgot to drop the e and add ing.
May 22 LavaGirl commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Two Birds, One Stone.
That's @31. Memory can be a bitch.
May 22 LavaGirl commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Two Birds, One Stone.
Dark Horse @ 22. You're right. I should be an equal opportunity finger pointer. Where was her mother, her father or other care givers?
Even if she's 27 plus, that still means she was a girl when she married. Shame on her parents for not guideing her better and shame on her husband for plucking the rose so young.
LW. I'm guessing this guy has given you money/ security. Divorce him, be fair and get moving on becoming an independent woman.
May 21 LavaGirl commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Two Birds, One Stone.
Chi & Finchu, yes to your posts. How old was this girl in LW1 and where was her mother?
May 19 LavaGirl commented on Savage Love.
What a turn of mind you have, Venn.
I'm going to buck the trend here and say... tough fella, thems the breaks.
With provisos; has the LW owned to her husband she no longer wants to have sex with him.
Do they sleep in seperate rooms.
I'm not saying the LW shouldn't feel concerned for her housemate/ ex sex mate, I just don't think she should feel responsible. And quit calling yourselves poly or any variation of a sexual relationship. Co parents and housemates are the relationships I'm hearing.
Maybe it's not sustainable, maybe his resentment will grow to be too much. This could be the looming problem here, unless he finds a new beau. I don't see he needs to say he's in any romantic relationship to new women. I'd suggest he say he's free to pursue a romance, it's just he lives with his child and that child's mother.
May 19 LavaGirl commented on Neapolitan Crime Bosses Show Respect for a Colleague's Gender Identity.
Should we even be talking about this?
I know nothing.
Days and days Dan , and you haven't mentioned H or B or D.
I thank you so much for that.