JonBalz
Southwest AR
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Grew up in Bible Belt Arkansas; left for college and greater things and hopefully to… more »

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Jul 26, 2014 JonBalz commented on Savage Love.
#3. I understand where you're coming from. I'm a 59 year old gay male and found that I was getting nothing but frustration reading the ads on Craig's List (M4M) because of those "no fats/fems, no one over 30", etc. ads. I had begun to really crap on myself because I no longer fit the "young, single, in-shape male" profile. Finally I decided I was simply making myself miserable reading these ads and so I stopped. Same can be said for the "wrong bars" (going to youth-oriented clubs and bars). I also had to stop and think that when I was in my 20s and 30s, many of the men I was interested in were not the 20-somethings, they were the 40 & 50 somethings that were mature and wanted to do something besides just dance, drink, do drugs and fuck around. And truth be told, I'd still rather be with a guy close to my age, greying hair and physically average, who has interests in and out of the LGBTQ community... a man who is mature. I did the kids stuff, time to move on!