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Oct 27 vitupera commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Erotic Novels Need New Home.
You're moving out of Philly and you've never been to Philly AIDS Thrift? Dang, you missed out. :( (Books Through Bars is also good, either would happily accept erotica.)
Aug 18 vitupera commented on I, Anonymous.
Five bucks says he complains about how women won't fuck him.
Mar 29 vitupera commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Terminator.
It could just be bad luck and incompatibility that he truly, honestly can't do without anal, or he could be one of those doms who demonstrates how irresistibly dominant he is by finding his sub's hard limits, whatever they happen to be, and tapdancing all over that boundary.
Dec 3, 2014 vitupera commented on SL Letter of the Day: His Pace, His Rules, His BS.
Pretty much everyone in the comments is correct here, but @15 is ON. FUCKING. POINT.
Sep 26, 2014 vitupera commented on Worse Swingers or Worse Christians?.
At least Christians say "love thy neighbor;" when has a poly person every said "proselytize thy fuckbuddy."
Aug 6, 2014 vitupera commented on SL Letter of the Day: Tough Choice.
MH is so cartoonishly villainous that I'm not sure this letter is real either. When you were homeless he secured a warm bed for himself but made you sleep in the car? In actual real fucking life?

Anyway, assuming it's all true, you should certainly divorce your husband at least a year ago (preferably you should've turned around and kept walking the moment he suggested the car as a solo camping experience). But for god's sake talk to your master, because you're considering an "open relationship" without any indication that your master wants an in any way altered relationship with you. Leave your husband for your own sake, and don't expect or force your D/s relationship to change.

P.S.: Gay sex counts as real sex. Your husband has cheated on you at least three times.
Jul 3, 2014 vitupera commented on SL Letter of the Day: If Not Unicorns Then What?.
@4 +1. Fuckin' truth.
May 6, 2014 vitupera commented on SL Letter of the Day: Don't Sext Momma!.
Rock on, TEXXXT!
Mar 4, 2014 vitupera commented on SL Letters & Tweets of the Day: An Enemy of the Bi People.
@29 Hey, bi poly person here to tell you to quit talking about bisexual people as if they were all poly. (Actually, you talk about them as if they were all CPOS, but let's give you the benefit of the doubt.) You sound like one of those right-wingers who can only talk about gay men in the context of anal sex.
Sep 13, 2013 vitupera commented on SLLOTD: DTMFA! DTMFA! DTMFA!.
@32 He probably encouraged/manipulated/forced her to disconnect from all her friends. He wouldn't even have to go so far as force her to actually *sever* her friendships, just drive them far enough away that they hover anxiously on the outskirts, waiting for her to ask for help, while he convinces her they secretly hate her and would never help her.

Typical abuser behavior.