santamonicatom
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Oct 24, 2014 santamonicatom commented on SL Letter of the Day: My Husband's Un-Relationship.
I think the husband has a thing for the woman still.
Oct 22, 2014 santamonicatom commented on SL Letter of the Day: Say Goodbye To My Racist Family?.
I had the same situation, but I was gay, not latino. they loved me until they saw I was gay, now they are openly homophobic.

Jan 2, 2014 santamonicatom commented on Savage Love.
the belly punching woman needs to leave that man and get some psychiatric help. stat.
Aug 21, 2013 santamonicatom commented on Savage Love.
that was a tough but sweet reply Dan.
Jul 3, 2013 santamonicatom commented on SL Letter of the Day: Poly Ps and Qs.
sounds like he likes the hipness of a poly relationship without the problems of a poly relationship.
Jul 3, 2013 santamonicatom commented on Seattle Police Arrest Foreclosure Protesters at Downtown Bank.
I always expected that if I couldn't pay my mortgage, I would have to move out and give up the house. I am very happy with the low interest rates on mortgages right now. Payments are lower than ever.
May 23, 2013 santamonicatom commented on Savage Love.
I think WSN needs to get over her prim self and move on in life. Leave her 14 year old self back there and leave her then 14 year old boyfriend alone. She shouldn't have been humping with a boy at all if she didn't want him to become aroused. Every person knows what physical contact means. Quit excusing your own 14 year old behavior...or do excuse it and move on.
Dec 6, 2012 santamonicatom commented on Savage Love.
apples and oranges! monogamy/non-monogamy is not the same as hetero/homo/bi-sexual.
Oct 4, 2012 santamonicatom commented on Is Tony Perkins Threatening to Sue Me?.
I wish I had a seething mom like #34.
May 30, 2012 santamonicatom commented on Another Tragedy in Kinkland.
I'm so happy that I'm easily pleased.