Jan 22, 2016 MarcVH commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Who's Your Survey Monkey? I'm Your Survey Monkey!.
Not all cheating is equal, obviously; since the question just says "discovering" then I think we're assuming that you merely learn of the infidelity, and we don't have cases of kids-that-are-not-yours or surprise-you-have-HIV or I-slept-with-your-sibling levels of betrayal.

Just to be clear, I guess that in the second case you're in a relationship where your sexual needs (if you have any) are being met despite the infidelity.
Nov 6, 2015 MarcVH commented on Mormon Church to Kids With Gay Parents: No Magic Underpants For You!.
What about after children of same-sex marriages who pass away? Can they still be posthumously baptized even if they are buried with their gay parents, or must they be exhumed and re-buried in a more godly location?
Aug 7, 2015 MarcVH commented on Overheard in the Office (When You Share an Office with Dan Savage).
I'm so disappointed Meghan Kelly didn't ask this question last night.
Jun 22, 2015 MarcVH commented on To the Sad Owner of a Capitol Hill Townhouse.
Note the opening line "I own property on Harvard Avenue." Not "I live on Harvard Avenue." It doesn't sound to me like she lives there currently, unless she's phrasing things oddly.
Jan 30, 2015 MarcVH commented on MSNBC's Rachel Maddow vs. RNC BFF Bryan Fischer.
Jews voted for Obama over Romney 69-30; I guess they're trying to see if they can manage to make it even more lopsided.
Jan 27, 2015 MarcVH commented on Savage Sitcom Sells to ABC.
As a response to the TLC show it should be titled "My husband is gay... and so am I!"
Oct 31, 2014 MarcVH commented on SL Letter of the Day: Welcoming a New Reader to the "Savage Love" Family.
"They fought to give you the freedom to be a man who lives right and flies straight."

No matter how many times I hear this argument, it never fails to amuse me. Lots of people claim to love freedom, but only if people are using their freedoms in specific ways of which the speaker approves. Obviously this means they don't really love freedom at all; they love conformity and order.

Soldiers died to establish and protect the Constitution, and the Constitution says you can stick things up your butt if you want to. The courts have been very clear on this.
Oct 31, 2014 MarcVH commented on Mars Hill Church to Dissolve Into "Autonomous Self-Governed Entities".
497 years to the day after Reformation Day, another richly-deserved schism.
Oct 20, 2014 MarcVH commented on When the Midterm Elections Are Done, Politics Are Only Going to Get Dumber.
You do realize the article you cited said that Paul and Christie had a "Penthouse Forum" at a place owned by "Woody Johnson". I wish this were satire.
Sep 29, 2014 MarcVH commented on Youth Pastor Watch: Strong Connections.
Re the second story, Vincennes is in Indiana, not California (however much its residents may wish otherwise.)