commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Who's Your Survey Monkey? I'm Your Survey Monkey!
Not all cheating is equal, obviously; since the question just says "discovering" then I think we're assuming that you merely learn of the infidelity, and we don't have cases of kids-that-are-not-yours or surprise-you-have-HIV or I-slept-with-your-sibling levels of betrayal.
Just to be clear, I guess that in the second case you're in a relationship where your sexual needs (if you have any) are being met despite the infidelity.
Jun 22, 2015
commented on To the Sad Owner of a Capitol Hill Townhouse
Note the opening line "I own property on Harvard Avenue." Not "I live on Harvard Avenue." It doesn't sound to me like she lives there currently, unless she's phrasing things oddly.
Oct 31, 2014
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Welcoming a New Reader to the "Savage Love" Family
"They fought to give you the freedom to be a man who lives right and flies straight."
No matter how many times I hear this argument, it never fails to amuse me. Lots of people claim to love freedom, but only if people are using their freedoms in specific ways of which the speaker approves. Obviously this means they don't really love freedom at all; they love conformity and order.
Soldiers died to establish and protect the Constitution, and the Constitution says you can stick things up your butt if you want to. The courts have been very clear on this.