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Feb 2, 2012
Geek Porn Girl commented on SL Letter of the Day: Lesbian Teen Not Happy With Her Parents—Or With Dan.
Honestly, Dan. I was just ranting about how tired I get of your comments about "fluid" female sexuality because I feel like it minimizes the experiences of lesbians. Then you go and do something like this... You continue to be a demi-god in my eyes, damn you.
Jan 17, 2012
Geek Porn Girl commented on SL Letter of the Day: DTMFAsshole.
Here's the thing: Presumably two months after you started dating, when he started his size-bashing, you were roughly the same size you were when he was first attracted to you. So this isn't a case of "concern". It's a case of control. He's found a way to hurt you that he can do while smiling sweetly and feeling self-righteous. If it wasn't your weight, it would be something else – guaranteed. This is a man who needs to wound you deeply in order to feel his own self-worth. I don't have to know you to know you deserve better than him... no one should have to put up with this particular breed of jerk. Dump him.
Jan 10, 2012
Geek Porn Girl commented on Vested Interest.
Ha! I just realized that a great use of the santorum.com web page would be a whole series of posts of men wearing nothing BUT the Santorum sweater vest!
Oct 13, 2011
Geek Porn Girl commented on The American Talibamish.
Someone has to ask this question: Did Mr. Mullet only cut off the hair on the sides of their heads?
Jun 21, 2011
Geek Porn Girl commented on My Flame Is Dim?.
I scored a 72 (acceptably gay) and I'm a lesbian. That seems wrong to me. Shouldn't I have another set of questions about Home Depot, Subarus, and human services work?
Jun 13, 2011
Geek Porn Girl commented on Gay Girl In Damascus Actually a Straight Guy in Scotland.
The story gets weirder. One of the "lesbian" bloggers who was supporting Gay Girl in Damascus and republishing her posts turns out to be a man also. You can read about it here: http://wp.me/p6DHk-1Hb
Jun 1, 2011
Geek Porn Girl commented on Hipster Headdressing Down.
You realize that indigenous Mexicans are less than 10% of Mexico's population, right?
You're (ironically) making broad assumptions based on the idea that all brown foreign people must be indigenous.
Whoops.
You're (ironically) making broad assumptions based on the idea that all brown foreign people must be indigenous.
Whoops.
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Of the course, the other possibility is that since she is usually the one to initiate, he is using his body (hygiene and his curious new kissing style) passive-aggressively so she'll stay away.
There are gendered expectations about grooming. If their genders and roles were reversed, and a woman suddenly stopped bathing and started doing things that grossed out her partner, I think it would be seen differently. It would regarded less like a "guy thing" and more like something that might be a symptom of something more serious than a lapse in personal care and sexual technique.