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2:36 PM yesterday sanguisuga commented on SL Letter of the Day: Asexuality-It's a Thing..
@30 - You aren't the only one who cannot abide seafood. Thankfully I haven't had anyone try to push it on me since I was a teenager, but I can't tell you how many times they tried various cajoling and even attempt to 'hide' some nasty-ass fish in a casserole or something. Ugh.
Aug 11 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Gay Virgin Comes Out & Gets Out From Under.
@19 - If someone ever points at one of their squidgy bits and tells me to 'chew on this', I will take that quite literally.
Aug 10 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Gay Virgin Comes Out & Gets Out From Under.
Communication is key, but so is having a sense of fun about it all. Dirty talk tends to make me break out into laughter too, and that's all right, as long as your partner isn't offended by it. And if they are, then maybe that's not the right partner for you. Just roll around a bit and giggle a lot and somewhere in there, you'll find what works for you.

But yes, get tested before doing anything heavy-duty, and therapy is almost never a bad idea.
Jul 6 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love.
@39 - Jinx!
Jul 6 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love.
Personally, I wouldn't go down the path of paternity testing. Biology shouldn't necessarily matter when it comes to children that you've loved since they were tadpoles. If the news wasn't all that positive, no matter how hard LW would try, there would be some subconscious prejudice there. The children shouldn't suffer for their incubator's mistakes.
Jun 27 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Old Dirty Pics Piss Off Sex-Starved Spouse.
Yeah, I think that particular bit was the clincher for me too, @3. It would have been one thing if he had said something like, "Seeing her in pain doesn't do anything for my libido", but of course he couldn't be that diplomatic. Seems to me that dude loved the sex more than he does his wife...
Jun 10 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love.
@80 - Oh yes, such a lovely thing in your head. Because none of those girls are fat with spotty faces, right? Because none of them already have stretch marks and jiggly thighs. If I had been forced to show my body to a gaggle of vicious teen girls, there would have been no bloody survivors.
Jun 4 sanguisuga commented on Muhammad Ali.
Man, 2016 sucks.
May 24 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love.

May 21 sanguisuga commented on Cafe Allegro Has a Sharps Container in Its Bathroom.
As a diabetic, the only public places that I've seen sharps containers are at hospitals and casinos. This is something I appreciate seeing, although @8 actually has the reality of disposal down, unfortunately. A few years back, I used to be able to take my used sharps to the doctor's office. Nope, not anymore, take them to the pharmacy. Okay - here you go, guys! Nope, toss that shit in the trash. Literally. Even if you have a proper container for it, the damn thing still goes out into the regular trash. I'm not overly worried about anybody cracking it open to get syringes, though, as my insulins are all in pens, so it's just a little cap needle. (And @3 - I tend to use the same needle throughout the day and start over in the morning. Those little fuckers can be expensive.)