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Jul 6 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love.
@39 - Jinx!
Jul 6 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love.
Personally, I wouldn't go down the path of paternity testing. Biology shouldn't necessarily matter when it comes to children that you've loved since they were tadpoles. If the news wasn't all that positive, no matter how hard LW would try, there would be some subconscious prejudice there. The children shouldn't suffer for their incubator's mistakes.
Jun 27 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Old Dirty Pics Piss Off Sex-Starved Spouse.
Yeah, I think that particular bit was the clincher for me too, @3. It would have been one thing if he had said something like, "Seeing her in pain doesn't do anything for my libido", but of course he couldn't be that diplomatic. Seems to me that dude loved the sex more than he does his wife...
Jun 10 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love.
@80 - Oh yes, such a lovely thing in your head. Because none of those girls are fat with spotty faces, right? Because none of them already have stretch marks and jiggly thighs. If I had been forced to show my body to a gaggle of vicious teen girls, there would have been no bloody survivors.
Jun 4 sanguisuga commented on Muhammad Ali.
Man, 2016 sucks.
May 24 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love.

May 21 sanguisuga commented on Cafe Allegro Has a Sharps Container in Its Bathroom.
As a diabetic, the only public places that I've seen sharps containers are at hospitals and casinos. This is something I appreciate seeing, although @8 actually has the reality of disposal down, unfortunately. A few years back, I used to be able to take my used sharps to the doctor's office. Nope, not anymore, take them to the pharmacy. Okay - here you go, guys! Nope, toss that shit in the trash. Literally. Even if you have a proper container for it, the damn thing still goes out into the regular trash. I'm not overly worried about anybody cracking it open to get syringes, though, as my insulins are all in pens, so it's just a little cap needle. (And @3 - I tend to use the same needle throughout the day and start over in the morning. Those little fuckers can be expensive.)
May 19 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Good Threesome, Spoiled.
@54 God no. Why on earth should she debase herself in a manner that will only give the husband a ready-made lie? Nothing about that is 'slightly' untrue - it's completely false! Ugh, but that just gave me the creeping horrors.
May 18 sanguisuga commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Good Threesome, Spoiled.
It wouldn't have risen to these levels of drama if the LW had just tattled on the husband to begin with. Whether the wife would have believed her in the moment or not, at least there would have been understanding as to where the distancing was coming from. But they're obviously untrustworthy in their own right, so batten down the hatches and prepare for some stormy weather.
May 17 sanguisuga commented on I, Anonymous.
Sooooo why didn't *you* report this nasty-ass dude, then?