Dec 3, 2012 Ivan commented on New Fathers Wired to Stop Chasing Ass (At Least For a Little While).
Wait, wasn't this about testosterone in new dads?
Nov 28, 2012 Ivan commented on Let's Crowdsource This One, Shall We?.
@74 - My wife and I have been together almost 20 years and 2 weeks of no sex would still be a huge break. The only times we had breaks like that were a) a few weeks after childbirth (well, no vaginal...) and b) when one of us was away on business.

And I thought all enlightened men sniffed their wives' panties whenever they got the chance. Who doesn't love the scent of a healthy, non-yeasty, non-menstruating vagina?
Nov 17, 2012 Ivan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Diaper Pals.
Nov 16, 2012 Ivan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Diaper Pals.
I would have suggested putting all the furniture from the nursery in storage, painting the nursery walls a nice, light, corporate shade of gray, and setting up a home office, complete with a desk, phone, desktop computer, fax machine, a filing cabinet, and one of those six-foot-tall black halogen lamps you get at Ikea. And a plastic ficus tree.

Then tell him he's got six months to straighten out his sorry ass and start meeting YOUR needs, or you're renting out the office to your divorce lawyer.
Nov 13, 2012 Ivan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Suing Over Sex Toys.
I guess they'd get dusty if they were washed and then not used, but if they were frequently used and washed, or infrequently used and then not washed, I don't think they'd get dusty.
Oct 28, 2012 Ivan commented on Every Child Deserves a Mother and a Father.
Why are you assuming "George" wasn't actually born Georgina, but is now a gender-transitioned transsexual who's really just over-doing the whole "living the heteronormative life" thing? Man, those transsexuals are fucked up.
Oct 8, 2012 Ivan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Only the Lonely.
I have a lot of very attractive single female friends who would look past not just obesity but gross physical deformity if they met a man who was not a dick and was a genuine and caring person. That's a pretty low bar, SOB, but you seem to be a dick, so look at this situation as a challenge you might never overcome.
Sep 29, 2012 Ivan commented on Word of the Day: Malinformed.
Disinformation is the word you are all looking for.
Sep 4, 2012 Ivan commented on SL Letter of the Day: Free Spirit, My Ass.
Wait, isn't the advice about bringing third parties into the bedroom usually that you want to wait a good, long time to establish the relationship with your primary partner? If what she says is true, she was GGG about swinging, and gave it a dozen tries over the course of a year. I think you were too harsh with this woman. She thought she'd be ok with it, gave it a go multiple times, and discovered that it wasn't for her.

On the other hand, it sounds as if her husband isn't treating her as the person he wants to spend his life with, but rather as the person who is his back-up at home when he doesn't have a sex party to go to. He sounds more into the sex parties than he is into her, and I bet that's one of the reasons she's not into the swinging.

She might be into it if her husband wasn't a dick.
Sep 1, 2012 Ivan commented on 101 of Mitt Romney's Acceptance Speech Lip Smacks.
I'm going to take a Republican position: I didn't watch the speech (of course), but the speech was definitely more annoying than the lip smacking video.