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sb53
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In my Early 60's Raised RC now agnostic Lutheran Self employed, married, Kids and G-… more »

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  • God is: missing
  • What song do you want played at your funeral?: small town
  • What song or movie makes you cry?: Danny Boy
  • What song do you never want to hear again?: werewolves of London
  • What book have you read the most?: see above

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sb53 is once agin at work, this time MAKING eyeglass frames .
8:50 AM yesterday sb53 commented on Savage Love.
OK. I am noticing a distinct lack of criticism and high dudgeon as regards DATA. Will nobody defend the "honor of marriage"????
Aug 19 sb53 commented on Savage Love.
RE WET
I was a bed wetter/sleep walker for most of my first 12 years and the psychological damage it does to a person is huge. If this guy cant be sympathetic about something OVER WHICH YOU HAVE NO CONTROL???? :.. IMHO DTMFA.
Re LW3 sheesh. I got married when I was 19 and did not have sex 5 times a week. I am reminded of Woody Allen in Annie Hall where each partner is seeing a psychiatrist:
Woody:... "We hardly ever have sex, Maybe 3 times a week"
Then you see Annie in her Dr's office: "He ALWAYs wants sex:..it's like 3 times a week"
Aug 18 sb53 commented on Savage Love.
@119 Lava
My very good friend Walter has always advised me: "Marriage ain't for sissies" . ...Well he was a Navy man & actually used a different word for sissies.
Thank you for your thoughts.Everyone on here has great viewpoints, and brings variety to the discussions. I probably say too much, but then I am Irish-German,...... but mostly Irish.
Aug 17 sb53 commented on Savage Love.
@106
Lava No I most certainly do NOT have a pass to pursue anything kinky.
Re Men's aging. We men are lucky. If I shave and have clean clothes fingernails and a haircut I pass muster at 200 lbs. My miss N works very hard to keep up appearances. She actually does exercise and has had some plastic surgery to slow down the effects of gravity, and still loathes her own appearance. My judgement is that her self-image was damaged by her family who were deeply self-loathing and has not dropped A.T.S. (all that sh*t) despite recognizing the fact that she is deserving of love and a beautiful, valuable person.
Aug 17 sb53 commented on Savage Love.
Mr. Ven.
RE penmanship
The Palmer Method of cursive was lost on me. I insisted upon sticking my right hand down and drawing each letter incorrectly using only my thumb and index finger, making jerky illegible words.
Re Hyacinth.
Alas, Nothing in my house has "The Royal Warrant" Oh NO here comes that slob ONSLOW! ;-)
Aug 17 sb53 commented on Savage Love.
@111
Sorry Auntie. I read several of our fellow-posters-profiles and apparently became confused. One of the "bio" notes on our fellow writers mentioned nuns.
Re: honesty
Real honesty in my marriage has brought trouble. I am happy that my Miss N. has close girlfriends but I have learned the hard way, that if I reveal any of my fantasies these things *instantly* become lunchtime-discussion fodder at her work, and this inevitably winds up reflecting badly on me.
I suppose in a perfect world we would have security in our intimate lives but my kinkiness has been thrown back at me too many times in the 40+ years we've been together. It is really best if I can be open to my "Stranger" friends from whom no harm may befall me. Again sorry about the screw-up with the religion thing.
Aug 15 sb53 commented on Savage Love.
oops sorry double -post by accident.
@91 Auntie
Oh Geez, Auntie G. I re-read your bio and you too were infected by nuns!
WE had Franciscans in Northern Wisconsin;.... who taught your school?
Aug 15 sb53 commented on Savage Love.
@94
Lava. I have to see my face every AM when I shave and prepare for work, and the effect of gravity and years makes this a sobering time every day! Like you, I must accept what time has done, but I don't have to like it. I remind myself that I have the body of a man, not a boy. I am not going to get a facelift, and so my face will eventually look like my grampa Tim. I remind myself that at my age he was resting in a box in a cemetery, whereas I keep going like the Energizer Bunny (only with better sunglasses).
I am grateful that I still find women my own age attractive, because if I ever have to start dating those are the only ones who will notice me!
Aug 15 sb53 commented on Savage Love.
@94
Lava. I have to see my face every AM when I shave and prepare for work, and the effect of gravity and years makes this a sobering time every day! Like you, I must accept what time has done, but I don't have to like it. I remind myself that I have the body of a man, not a boy. I am not going to get a facelift, and so my face will eventually look like my grampa Tim. I remind myself that at my age he was resting in a box in a cemetery, whereas I keep going like the Energizer Bunny (only with better sunglasses).
I am grateful that I still find women my own age attractive, because if I ever have to start dating those are the only ones who will notice me!
Aug 15 sb53 commented on Savage Love.
@93 Wanna
I am conflicted about my attraction to men who also CD. I am very comfortable living in my masculine role. BUT there is a part of my identity where on occasion the feminine becomes dominant. Thus far I have been most comfortable in my feminine role when in the presence of a female who is dominant. (In all these cases a professional). These women have encouraged me to do this and helped me fulfill fantasies of mine and shared their interest in watching a man transform into a feminine role.
Honestly, part of the enjoyment in acting out a feminine role is participating in the enjoyment of the Domme. One big impetus for my experiments is a desire to be with someone who is interested in sex. It feels so lonely to live day to day with someone to whom I am attracted sexually but no longer feels that way about me, so that most of the sex I am having anymore is by myself. These topics are not discussions that I could ever have with my spouse, of course.

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