commented on I, Anonymous
When you're right, you're right. Faking that enthusiasm convincingly is a useful skill to have, though.
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: She Can't Unread That
Let's take the LW's word for it, that the notebook was out in the open, and she was looking for a piece of paper. Many people here are saying she's a snoop for having read it, and while there may be some truth in that - after a couple of sentences it must have been clear that this was not meant for her eyes - I think this is still very different from breaking into email or searching for (and finding) a carefully hidden diary. Nothing about the notebook screamed "private."
It would be an unusual person who would not keep reading a bit longer, if they accidentally saw a sentence about themselves. Pretty sure I would.
commented on Savage Love
Ugh, CHEAT, no no no. You say you are a terrible liar, and your BF very perceptive. You sound pretty sure you'll get caught. If you are looking for a way to break up that will stick, and be hideously painful for all involved, your plan is aces. Otherwise, no. Break up, or announce your intention to fuck other people (and likely your BF will do the breaking up. Or maybe not! Stranger things have happened.)