Sep 17 Roma commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: He Wears Short Shorts.
Seeing an attractive woman in sexy sandals gives me sandalwood.
Sep 5 Roma commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Bi & Bi.
27/BiDanFan, thanks for the comment. Seems like a plausible explanation.

LW: Our sex life is great and I love her more than words can express.

More than words? I feel a song coming on....
Sep 5 Roma commented on Dougsley C. Flower Currently Treating Volunteer Park Conservatory Visitors to a Whiff of Its Fetid Stench.
I went to see this at Volunteer Park almost exactly ten years ago (the date stamp on my photos is 8/16/06.) While it looked spectacular it, unfortunately, was past its stench prime. In fact, there was hardly any odor at all. Apparently once it's past its peak, the stench fades very fast.

Cool time-lapse video...thanks. Something else cool about it: check out the old man face that appears in the flower at 5:40.
Sep 3 Roma commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Bi & Bi.
12/BiDanFan: Can I just bitch-slap the bi women who dumped their bi boyfriends...

You never know....they might like that.
Sep 3 Roma commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Bi & Bi.
Double standards are definitely in play when it comes to bisexuality over in Opposite-Sex Land. While most men are only too happy to date bi women, most women are wary about dating bi guys. . . . And while bisexual-but-heteroamorous women (women like your wife, RHETT) rarely view their own bisexuality as evidence of secret/latent/metastasizing lesbianism, many view male bisexuality as evidence of secret/latent/metastasizing homosexuality. (I have two letters in my inbox from bi guys who were dumped when they came out to their bi girlfriends...

I think the fact that most men don't view female bisexuality as evidence of secret/latent/metastasizing homosexuality is why "most men are only too happy to date bi women." I wonder why there's this difference. Why are women so much more suspicious than men that any interest in the same sex by their partner means that their partner is "actually gay"? And it doesn't even have to be an interest in the same sex. For example, I've seen letters from women concerned that their husband/boyfriend is "secretly" gay just because he likes his ass being touched by his wife/girlfriend.
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Aug 31 Roma commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Should've Checked My Email Earlier.
Coming to theaters this Christmas...

Based on a little-known Marvel Comics character, Dan Savage, a former Catholic churchgoer turned sex advice columnist is subjected to a rogue experiment that leaves him with accelerated powers of depravity, adopting the alter ego Cesspool.
Aug 27 Roma commented on SL Letter of the Day: Asexuality-It's a Thing..
39/tachycardia, I'm sure there are also men who don't like receiving oral sex (although they're probably rare too.) In my experience with women, only one woman hasn't liked it...and she really didn't like it. She didn't even think, as you do, that it feels "nice." She seemed repulsed by the very idea. I didn't try to convince her that she just hadn't ever done it right or that I could finally be the one to make her see the light. Instead, as a guy who loves giving, I did the sensible thing: I quit seeing her.
Aug 26 Roma commented on The Coming Death of One of Seattle's Few Black-Loved Supermarkets.
28/2CV: Black and white people love Grocery Outlet.

True. While black and blue people prefer Knocked Outlet.
Aug 19 Roma commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Swinging Double Standards.
41/blondegrrl: One time I was with a guy, and suddenly had three other cocks in my face! WTF?!?

That's precisely why, when that fast food craving hits, you should never go to Cock-in-the-Face.
Aug 15 Roma commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Daddy's Pretend Girl Worried About Daddy's Actual Girl.
3/UF, my feelings about your fetish can best be expressed by this gentleman.