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Dec 18, 2015 private universe commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Brother's Business.
@48 Surely the LW's gender is actually pretty irrelevant to any advice that is specific to the situation they're asking about? Sure, if you want to comment on their reaction to the situation you can bring gender into if if you must, but it's not pertinent.
Sep 29, 2015 private universe commented on The Breast Advice, or Tit Tips.
Some great stuff but, please, DDDs are actually not that big so I suspect you're not in the right size, despite in store fittings. These fitters are far from a skilled bunch, some are good, most are bad. Anyone wanting a better fitting bra should head over to and measure themselves according to the guidlines in the side bar "Beginner's Guide" and go from there.
Dec 11, 2014 private universe commented on SL Letter of the Day: Some Ladies Hate Their Labia—And That's Okay—Plus ALL CAPS Oral Rage!.
Ha, I should add that him barely giving head was far from the only reason I left him, but it was significant.
Dec 11, 2014 private universe commented on SL Letter of the Day: Some Ladies Hate Their Labia—And That's Okay—Plus ALL CAPS Oral Rage!.
@30 when you're filled with self loathing for your vulva. Sorry but I left a man who had WAY too many Ts&Cs for giving head to me.

The LW has a point, a very small one, that after encouraging the OP to love her bits it would be perfectly okay to say that she could still be perfectly okay with just accepting her bits, and letting her man really love them. But the LW would have had SO much more of a case if she hadn't been so negative about vulvas in general and her own, and receiving oral sex, in particular.

"I'm fucked up therefore it's perfectly acceptable for you to be similarly fucked up; telling you that there is no need to be fucked up is fucked up!"
Oct 15, 2014 private universe commented on SL Letter of the Day: My New Girlfriend's Sister Is Dying.
I think she probably shouldn't go for all the reasons stated, especially @30 and @34. Even if she was local, if they'd only been dating 5 months then she'd not be intimately involved every day I'm sure, and being local would mean she had her own place and could be there only when specifially requested/needed. I think with the timing it is way too much way too soon, and the Skype sessions are possibly the best way to continue, and perhaps attend the funeral if she would like you to, and only if it won't hurt the LW financially, which clearly it might.
Mar 26, 2013 private universe commented on Lying Liar Lies.
We won't prevent black people from being black but we won't sanction it.

Fucking hilarious.
Feb 6, 2013 private universe commented on House of Commons Backs Same-Sex Marriage.
Actually one of the most embarrassing things to happen around this was on "yoof" radio, a 20 year old chaste Christian woman unable to congratulate a young gay man for getting engaged, and telling him he could get professional help for his homosexual thoughts and be happy in a heterosexual marriage. I thought THAT only happened in the US.
Dec 24, 2012 private universe commented on God to Bryan Fischer: You're Not Helping!.
Fuck me I'm glad I live in the UK. And of course, laughably for the US, it's the country oft criticised for NOT separating state and religion.
Jan 11, 2012 private universe commented on Respectfully Engaged: An Email Exchange.
Perhaps his family know him to be such a bigot that they've not let him know that the macro IS the micro and affects real people, keeping them from living to the same standard as the straight population. This shit ruins lives. Someone lend him some gay shoes to walk a mile in...
Oct 25, 2011 private universe commented on Religious Bigot to Straight Parents: Ask Hospitals to Keep LGBT Staff Away From Your Children.
She lost me at "they're". Well, a lot before that but still, once a grammar pedant...