Oct 5, 2015 CLDG commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: An Affair to Remember.
So, there's "trying to get pregnant" sex with someone who wouldn't otherwise be into it. I sadly know why she's counting that as part of the sexless. I also know why it took years to get pregnant -cause when you can maybe eke one out per fertile time of the month...yeah.
Jan 9, 2015 CLDG commented on Savage Love.
If it's anything like what's I'm dealing with, I am betting this is not the only reason MMM's gf thinks he isn't that attracted/has low libido. This is probably just the thing that forces the issue. Think of the "whatever you like" scene in Coming to America. Having (or seeming to have) no personal, even selfish, desire is irritating and not fun for someone else, for a lot of reasons very well spelled out by many great commenters above.

Here's how it plays out here - Me: "Tell me what you want." Him: "Just you." Well, that's sweet, but he doesn't act like he wants me in any specific way or enough for it to matter to him. One time in the heat of the moment (cause we are capable of good vanilla sex if infrequent) I asked for him to talk to me and got the deer in the headlights freeze and he later said he couldn't do it. I should have known, but ya know, hope springs eternal.

TL;DR - you're incompatible, don't get married.
Jun 3, 2013 CLDG commented on SL Letter of the Day: My Ex-Boyfriend.
@3 - what what what?
May 6, 2013 CLDG commented on SL Letter of the Day: Hot Air.
How about: just ignore it and keep on truckin'?
Pretty sure that's all that's ever happened in my life.
Apr 24, 2013 CLDG commented on SL Letters of the Day: A Selection of Second Opinions.
Project much, LTS?
Apr 12, 2013 CLDG commented on Another Teenage Girl Takes Her Own Life After Photos of Her Rape Are Distributed Online.
@1 - CONSENT, duh
@3 non-problem?
Apr 5, 2013 CLDG commented on Today In the East Carolinian.
Unregistered troll has really worked up a lather today!
Wait! Is our troll actually....Mahogany??
Apr 3, 2013 CLDG commented on John Corvino: God Said It, I Believe It, That Settles It.
That is to say: evangelical Christians
Apr 3, 2013 CLDG commented on John Corvino: God Said It, I Believe It, That Settles It.
Now this is actually something I can watch with my mother that she has a chance of getting and not being able to counter, though there will be some sputtering "but-but-but!" Still, I can see a crack opening in her understanding here.
Most arguments from non-Christians about the Bible don't really get how Christians see and read the Bible. (And why should they, but it won't do any convincing.)
Mar 26, 2013 CLDG commented on SCOTUS Blog Says....
Looks like Kennedy won't take the opportunity to go down as a hero in history.