Oct 5, 2015
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: An Affair to Remember
So, there's "trying to get pregnant" sex with someone who wouldn't otherwise be into it. I sadly know why she's counting that as part of the sexless. I also know why it took years to get pregnant -cause when you can maybe eke one out per fertile time of the month...yeah.
Jan 9, 2015
commented on Savage Love
If it's anything like what's I'm dealing with, I am betting this is not the only reason MMM's gf thinks he isn't that attracted/has low libido. This is probably just the thing that forces the issue. Think of the "whatever you like" scene in Coming to America. Having (or seeming to have) no personal, even selfish, desire is irritating and not fun for someone else, for a lot of reasons very well spelled out by many great commenters above.
Here's how it plays out here - Me: "Tell me what you want." Him: "Just you." Well, that's sweet, but he doesn't act like he wants me in any specific way or enough for it to matter to him. One time in the heat of the moment (cause we are capable of good vanilla sex if infrequent) I asked for him to talk to me and got the deer in the headlights freeze and he later said he couldn't do it. I should have known, but ya know, hope springs eternal.
TL;DR - you're incompatible, don't get married.
Apr 3, 2013
commented on John Corvino: God Said It, I Believe It, That Settles It
Now this is actually something I can watch with my mother that she has a chance of getting and not being able to counter, though there will be some sputtering "but-but-but!" Still, I can see a crack opening in her understanding here.
Most arguments from non-Christians about the Bible don't really get how Christians see and read the Bible. (And why should they, but it won't do any convincing.)
Mar 26, 2013
commented on SCOTUS Blog Says...
Looks like Kennedy won't take the opportunity to go down as a hero in history.