May 14, 2010
kinkymiddleagedwoman commented on SL Letter of the Day: Boy Toys.
@39 Sorry, noble as your ideas may be, they're not realistic. Your son will find porn whether you allow it or not. Sex with someone you love can be wonderful and special. Masturbation to porn for mindless pleasure is also pretty wonderful when in the right mood.
Mar 31, 2010
kinkymiddleagedwoman commented on I Hope You're Sitting Down.
I'm new to Dan's column/blog - is 42 real? Can anyone really be that clueless?
Mar 31, 2010
kinkymiddleagedwoman commented on SL Letter of the Day: Never Read the "Savage Love" Mail At Lunch, Never Read the "Savage Love" Mail At Lunch, Never Read the "Savage Love" Mail At Lunch....
@40 - not true. You CAN catch blood-borne pathogens by mucous membrane exposure.
While it's not quite my thing, I don't see it as all that disgusting either. My husband and I have both earned our red wings more than a few times and this is is just a more indirect way to get the same thing. If I discovered that my husband liked sucking on used tampons I think my only reaction would be to put them in a plastic bag instead of wrapping them in TP.
I do wonder what he'll do once she reaches menopause and can't provide what clearly gives him so much pleasure.
While it's not quite my thing, I don't see it as all that disgusting either. My husband and I have both earned our red wings more than a few times and this is is just a more indirect way to get the same thing. If I discovered that my husband liked sucking on used tampons I think my only reaction would be to put them in a plastic bag instead of wrapping them in TP.
I do wonder what he'll do once she reaches menopause and can't provide what clearly gives him so much pleasure.
Mar 18, 2010
kinkymiddleagedwoman commented on Savage Love.
@93 You're right, hints aren't telling people outright but they can be a way of gauging someone's reaction to something that you're embarrassed about or have found in the past that people don't understand.
My husband's reaction might be different if I told him outright that I have this kink but after a lifetime of being embarrassed by it I find that no matter how hard I try I can't tell this hyper clean, ultra respectful, conservative, and wonderful man that I want him to piss on me. He knows everything about me but this, which is why it never occurred to me that DIB's husband was hiding anything other than his shoe fetish.
My husband's reaction might be different if I told him outright that I have this kink but after a lifetime of being embarrassed by it I find that no matter how hard I try I can't tell this hyper clean, ultra respectful, conservative, and wonderful man that I want him to piss on me. He knows everything about me but this, which is why it never occurred to me that DIB's husband was hiding anything other than his shoe fetish.
Mar 17, 2010
kinkymiddleagedwoman commented on Savage Love.
I could be DIB's husband...if I were a man.
My husband and I have been together for 11 yrs and I have a serious kink (can't quite call it a fetish) that I initially only hinted at to get his reaction. After a less than positive reaction, I've never mentioned it again.
If he looked at my computer he'd find porn involving my kink but I've always been monogamous. Am I really a different person than he thinks I am just because I get turned on by something that he doesn't understand? I'd like to think that he'd understand and not have DIB's reaction.
DIB deserves the answer that she got from Dan and the responses that she's gotten in the comments.
My husband and I have been together for 11 yrs and I have a serious kink (can't quite call it a fetish) that I initially only hinted at to get his reaction. After a less than positive reaction, I've never mentioned it again.
If he looked at my computer he'd find porn involving my kink but I've always been monogamous. Am I really a different person than he thinks I am just because I get turned on by something that he doesn't understand? I'd like to think that he'd understand and not have DIB's reaction.
DIB deserves the answer that she got from Dan and the responses that she's gotten in the comments.
Feb 24, 2010
kinkymiddleagedwoman commented on Savage Love.
Wonderful column! Love the statistics and particularly love this line:
"No, thank you, LBIP, because every time a straight girl sticks something up a straight boy's ass, a bigoted state representative dies a little inside."
My husband and I do our part on a regular basis. Now, if I could only get him to wear my panties...
"No, thank you, LBIP, because every time a straight girl sticks something up a straight boy's ass, a bigoted state representative dies a little inside."
My husband and I do our part on a regular basis. Now, if I could only get him to wear my panties...
Jan 28, 2010
kinkymiddleagedwoman commented on Savage Love.
@84 - yes, WS=watersports. My number 1 all-time fantasy.
Jan 27, 2010
kinkymiddleagedwoman commented on Savage Love.
@69 I'm glad I'm not alone!
Alas, I've asked my husband about WS and he says it's not something that he's interested in. I'm still hoping, though, because that's what he said about me rimming him and penetrating him and he's changed his mind about that.
Alas, I've asked my husband about WS and he says it's not something that he's interested in. I'm still hoping, though, because that's what he said about me rimming him and penetrating him and he's changed his mind about that.
Jan 27, 2010
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Jan 27, 2010
kinkymiddleagedwoman commented on Savage Love.
A m-m-f threesome is my second biggest fantasy (right after some hot WS action). I want to be penetrated by both at the same time, want them to interact with each other - kiss, blow each other, fuck each other. Everything.
I don't see it ever happening with hubby, though, and I'm not interested in cheating so it will remain a fantasy.
I don't see it ever happening with hubby, though, and I'm not interested in cheating so it will remain a fantasy.
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