Apr 9, 2012 cxg commented on SL Letter of the Day: Holy Day of Romantic Obligation.
Note to LW's BF: Dump her. She's an annoying, self-absorbed brat. You can do better.
Mar 12, 2012 cxg commented on SL Letter of the Day: Permission Slippage.
So couple-swapping isn't an option for the LW and his wife? Or perhaps a female third? It seems that the LW has either eliminated a number of options for himself (swingers clubs, couples play) or he's leaving something out. Maybe... just maybe... he's not as attractive to women as his wife is to men. Or maybe... just maybe... he THINKS he's not attractive so he fails to notice some of the attention he gets for lack of self-esteem.

Either way, the LW should NOT lie to these women and cast himself as a cpos. Instead, he and his spouse should work together to figure out the answer to his dilemma.

A suggestion for an ad on CL: "This is a picture of my sexy husband and he has my permission to play with you. Call him, you will NOT regret it."
Mar 6, 2012 cxg commented on SL Letter of the Day: I Never Believed Those Letters I Read In "Savage Love" Until....
@34... actually, I think he may have snagged it from one of those sites. I'd guess nifty.org.
Mar 6, 2012 cxg commented on SL Letter of the Day: I Never Believed Those Letters I Read In "Savage Love" Until....
I've tried to pull this stunt with a variety of different gay-friendly straight male friends, and it NEVER WORKS. So.... FAAAAKE! But if not, then he's one lucky SOB.
Mar 2, 2012 cxg commented on You Can Help Put Spreading Santorum Back on Top!.
Not to gross anyone out, but I happen to have a pair of santorum-stained briefs (very expensive and recently ruined) that I would be willing to auction off "for the cause." Anyone know of any freaks who get into that sort of thing?

Feb 23, 2012 cxg commented on SL Letter of the Day: How Many Is Too Many?.
The LW should also be reminded of the fact that there are plenty of 23/24 yr-old gay men out there who might think that his 8 or 9 sex partners is slutty when compared to their own 3 or 4. It's a relative game the LW is playing and it really really isn't fair. My recommendation is actually to the LW's boyfriend: if you read this letter and recognize the writer as your bf, then drop him because he's a petty, insecure bitch.

Advice to the LW: In 5 or 6 yrs, after your "head count" has moved into the 30's or 40's (and it will, trust me), someone is going to slut-shame you for it and you are NOT going to be happy about it or about his choice to call you out on it. Think about it.
Jan 20, 2012 cxg commented on Gingrich: The Story Is False! I Did NOT Ask My Second Ex-Wife For An Open Marriage!.
God, I hate this man. I sooo desperately want him to win the Republican nomination... partly because Obama will trounce him, but mostly because his landslide defeat will completely rip apart the Republican Party and destroy the social-cons' voting block forever.
Dec 20, 2011 cxg commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Gay Panic Offense.
I work with 4 straight men ranging in age from 32 to 44. 3 are currently in relationships with GGG women (one married, two dating) and all 3 have stated that they have had MFF hook-ups with their current female companions. As a gay man, I was curious as to whether any of them have had (or even considered) a MMF hook-up. The response: a 100% NO WAY.
All 3 know I'm gay, and all 3 seemingly have no problem with it, but not one of them would consider a MMF with another straight man... ever. I have tried (gently) to point out their hypocrisy on the issue, but no... it just "ain't gonna happen," as one of them is so quick to say.
I give. They know that I'm not volunteering for duty, but nonetheless, they absolutely refuse to be in a bed with another naked straight man.
The best part of the whole story is that two of them are constantly swapping porn tapes and web links to their favorite x-tube vids. And, (ta da!) more often than not, the link is of a single female being gang-banged by 5 or more men. Hilarious!
Dec 19, 2011 cxg commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Change of View.
@17... gg mikey is correct. There ARE a lot of middle-aged married men out there playing around with other dudes on the DL. Should anyone have any doubts, sign up for an account on Adam4Adam as a "versatile/btm" and see how many times a MWM or MBM hits you up on a given night. I live in a small city (about 120,000) and roughly 1/3 of the hits I get are from married men, and most of them are white, middle-aged, and middle class. Go figure.
Dec 19, 2011 cxg commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Change of View.
So here's my question for bisexuals in general... a question that I've never seen fully addressed, asked, or answered. If this man (the LW) gradually becomes comfortable with his bi-ness and learns to enjoy sex with men without being drunk or feeling guilty, then how does this play into his desire to meet and fall in love with a woman? Does his bi-ness give him a pass in the fidelity department? Does he look for a bi female and set up an open relationship? Is he allowed to cheat on his wife with guys (because he's bi), or does he go through life married to a woman never to suck cock again?
I guess what I'm asking is, are the rules different?