Jan 10 fubar commented on Savage Love.
You've never answered a question from me! Why is that? Wait... does that count as a question? Does that count as another? Oh shit.
Jan 4 fubar commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Trump Supporters Want Invite To Their Gay Wedding.
You have no idea how most of your wedding guests voted unless you conducted a survey. These four were stupid enough to vote for Trump for "some other reason", and then stupid enough to advertise it.
Nov 3, 2016 fubar commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Husband-To-Be's Porn Use Causes Ex-Christian Bride To Despair.
Call off the wedding. Or at least tell the groom what hell he's in for.
Sep 28, 2016 fubar commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Too Good To Be True.
LW's bullshit detector was tuned in enough to have him write to Dan. LW has a functioning bullshit detector.
Sep 7, 2016 fubar commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The End of the Kinky Affair.
A D/s relationship is much more than "light slapping, restraints, hair pulling, name calling". That doesn't even begin to come close to describing the dynamic. And Dan - dear Dan - you've strayed too far from your area(s) of expertise here, and should not be giving advice.

There's much written about this dynamic; much of it on Fetlife. Sign up. Read. Explore.

And while I'm blathering... I wonder if LW, having put up with a mountain of bullshit, might not be the kind of woman that derives an enormous amount of satisfaction and pleasure from submitting to the will of a man.
Aug 8, 2016 fubar commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Non-Disclosure Agreement.
Turns out the LW wasn't really telling the whole story. http://www.thestranger.com/slog/2016/08/…
Jul 12, 2016 fubar commented on Savage Love.
NCA should tell girlfriend #2 that he just wrote a letter to his ex last week telling her that he loves and misses her. Then #2 can decide if she's worth settling for.
Jun 17, 2016 fubar commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Weeded Out.
LW should Google "Bob Newhart stop it", and follow the advice to the letter.
Jun 2, 2016 fubar commented on Blue Angel Crashes In Tennessee.
Dan - the number of sex advice columnists who've died from air show crashes during the last 42 years is zero. None. Try to relax.
Jun 2, 2016 fubar commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: What To Say? Beats Me..
Nobody asked, so why worry about which lie you won't have to tell?