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ianbnyc

new york city

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35 gay LOOOOOONG time reader of savage love started reading the Stranger when my best… more »

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Why are people so afraid to learn the truth about building 7?: cause they dont believe
Dicks or Vaginas
Tom Skerritt or Dave Matthews
Where's your hairiest square inch?: top o my head
Dan Savage or Charles Mudede

ianbnyc is working in corp communications for a big kids publisher.

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Mar 14, 2012 ianbnyc commented on It Opens Saturday.

The show is amazing. I 100% recommend going. I saw it twice in NYC and loved it the first time, and was moved the second. The first time I went I ended up, through a mix up on directions, walking through the exhibit backwards. Starting with late 20th century AIDS based pieces and ending with a tiny print of Walt Whitman. It was a very different experience going in that direction. The exhibit, although NOT titled as a 20th Century ONLY exhibit, does not encompass anything past the late 90's. AIDS was and is a part of our culture but, from the perspective of the exhibit it would appear that gay men and women all disappeared in the mid 90's and nothing since has been made in the way of gay portraiture. This made me sad as, to me, it lets AIDS be the de facto END of gay identity. It is literally the last word. As much as i love and cherish this well curated exhibit, I must say that walking through it backwards actually made me feel MORE connected to my gay history than walking through it the way it is intended to be seen. I bought the book. I went twice. I highly recommend it but, I wish you would walk away feeling a part of a history of people and less part of a history of people who have not made a statement in the arts about self identity since AIDS was decimating our community without hope for a future.

Anyone else feel this way?

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Dec 13, 2011 ianbnyc commented on Santorum Spells It Out.

Ditto #7, and from the glint in the eye/smirk of the guy standing next to him, who I assmue MADE the sign, Rick is the only one NOT in on the joke. I can how amazed/excited/nervous the guy is in the pic. Well done!

Aug 26, 2011 ianbnyc commented on The Next Great Reality Sho.

i have actually seen a live performance of AMERICAS NEXT TOP BOTTOM at a Daniel Nardicio (Playgirl Owner) party on the lower east side. Three contestants. the one that one took a dildo up his ass at least 18 inches long and prolly about 9 around... like throwin a hot dog down a hallway. all in front of about 100 people... amazeballs!

Aug 22, 2011 ianbnyc commented on If Someone Is Having Screaming Loud Sex....

according to what i learned reading sex at dawn, those banshee yelps were meant to attract other male suitors... not other women... so maybe thats why it wasnt workin for you. or else she was just an obnoxious haprie screamin her head off for affect and to join the club of the moaning sex building... and by the way... I want to move there

Aug 4, 2011 ianbnyc commented on Watch Out, A-Hole! I'm Wearing My KICKIN' JEANS!.

i can not express properly how much i want a pair of these!

Mar 1, 2011 ianbnyc commented on She Wuz Robbed.

i am just amazed DS wasn't rooting for her to go home... you know how he feels about fat people...

Jan 3, 2011 ianbnyc commented on Open Homosexual Dances With Little Boy....

wow... your husband looks SMOKIN hot in those jeans... GRR DAN! nice calves! thanks for sharin!

Nov 18, 2010 ianbnyc commented on What Happened After Glenn Beck and I Decided To Go Get Pregnant.

BEAUTIFUL!

Oct 8, 2010 ianbnyc commented on What's the Difference?.

@6 - "They made heroes of the thug attempted murderers." please send links to back up your point.

also... i am all over the gay web... and have no idea of the story of which you write... please elaborate and don't forget the links to those hero making sites.

Thanks!