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Sep 15, 2012 SpaceGirl commented on Little Smokies.

My dad's been a rabbi for almost 40 years, and has never ever seen this or heard it suggested as a thing that should happen. This is not any kind of common Jewish tradition.

Jul 29, 2012 SpaceGirl commented on SL Letter of the Day: Suggested Reading.

This is kind of an old thread at this point, but I just wanted to comment that at my brother's wedding they had little cards that said "in lieu of party favors, we've made a donation in your name for marriage equality" and listed the charity to which they'd donated. (I happen to know they couldn't have afforded favors *and* donations, so they used the opportunity to make a lovely statement of their values.)

As a guest, I felt super warm and fuzzy about that choice, as though I'd donated, but without having to lift a finger. Something to consider.

Jul 12, 2012 SpaceGirl commented on SL Letter of the Day: Devoted Devotees.

...so, yeah, in fewer words, the difference isn't how *you* feel about her sexy attributes, the difference is in how *she* feels about them (which, obviously, will vary from person to person).

Jul 12, 2012 SpaceGirl commented on SL Letter of the Day: Devoted Devotees.

@6 It can be tough to be loved for something that has given you a whole lot of trouble and that you've spent much of your life trying to transcend.

A nice ass is not a disability, it will not make your life more difficult, you might be proud of it or unaware of it or whatever, but you probably aren't *frustrated* about having a nice ass. It's not like having a nice ass prevents you from going anywhere or doing anything you'd wanted to do, nor does it hugely change how people perceive you. (And if for any reason you dislike having a nice ass, just buy ugly pants, problem solved.)

What if somebody liked you, in large part, because you had a lifelong physical or mental illness? Wouldn't that wig you out a little? Perhaps, with a lot of time and thought, you might conclude, "well, I've got this issue anyway, so at least my partner likes it," but that's not going to be everyone's conclusion.