Nov 5, 2014 moi commented on Should the Duggar Girls #FuckFirst?.
To the commenters who think whatever Duggar children are queer won't come out, even to themselves, not so fast. There are more than a few LGBT homeschoolers who are from families just as strict as the Duggars who are out now. Some of them are activists now.

Apr 1, 2013 moi commented on Unconditional Love Is a Two-Way Street.
That article was so heartbreaking. It once again reminds me of how fortunate I am that my conservative evangelical parents didn't pull that kind of stunt but have tried their best to understand.
Feb 25, 2013 moi commented on Ladies Wearing Jeans.
What got me was when I figured out that none of the adults that had spent all that time lecturing us about waiting had actually waited themselves. They never told us that, of course, just about how beautiful and wonderful waiting was. It wasn't until I was an adult that I realized that I can't think of any of those people for whom it wasn't just a talking point that they hadn't followed when they were teenagers. It's dishonest.

And, of course, since they also taught that gay was totally a choice, it never occurred to me as a teenager that there was another reason than being uber spiritual why those pledges were so easy for me.
Jan 15, 2013 moi commented on Jesus Comes Out.
I'm confused, I thought he already was out.
Jan 10, 2012 moi commented on Who Is This Guy?.
Admittedly, he does ping the gaydar, but on the other hand, a lot of homeschooled straight boys I know come across as slightly effeminate, so who knows.
Jan 9, 2012 moi commented on They Are the 99.9%.
GCN does not believe that gay people are supposed to be committed to lifelong celibacy. Officially, they don't take a position one way or the other because they're trying to be a safe space for people who are coming to terms with their sexuality and would be scared off otherwise, but the director and the vast majority of members believe that gay relationships are exactly equivalent, morally, to straight relationships.

Aug 25, 2011 moi commented on Boy Wearing Skirt a "Distraction".
If a decade ago my little conservative Christian college in rural Georgia could handle guys wearing skirts, this school seriously needs to get over it.
Jun 17, 2011 moi commented on Vancouver, BC, Goddam.
What gets me is that I've spent the last seven years defending my team's fan base from accusations that we weren't real fans because we didn't riot when the team won the Cup in '04, yet suddenly when Vancouver embarrasses themselves on the world stage we're supposed to believe it was just anarchists because real hockey fans would never destroy their city.
May 17, 2011 moi commented on Shut Up, Penny Nance.
I grew up around Concerned Women for America and AFA types (actually still share mutual facebook friends with the president of CWfA), and for all of their worry about the children, I didn't learn about any of the stuff they're worried about from TV, I learned it from *them*.

I'm pretty sure it's not normal for a young teenage girl growing up in the pre-internet early '90s to know about fisting or watersports or scat play or really any sort of kink, but I did, because *they* wouldn't stop talking about it. In great detail. A lot. Never mind that there were kids in the room while they were rambling on about all the horrible things they thought were going to pollute children's minds.

To say it was bizarre is an understatement.
Jan 13, 2011 moi commented on Born This Way.
I don't think there are any photos of me that hint at anything, unless you count the one of me at about 18 months old, sitting in a tree wearing a frilly dress, with cast on my arm because I'd fallen off of a swing set a few weeks before. That's still me, girly exterior but totally a tomboy under the surface.