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6:04 AM yesterday Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
If the teen girl were interested in fucking, is the advice still, Sure, go check out a website, and do it.?
5:17 AM yesterday Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Of course onanism is masturbation. Not in the words of Bibel, but in a million references since then.
Mar 28 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
How many of us always discuss our herpse+ status with casual contacts?
Mar 28 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Mar 28 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Bi @115,

You're building me into an unrecognizable straw man for your own self-satisfaction. I haven't expressed any concern over their differences in sex drives. My concern is the power imbalance of this couple manifested by her needing approval from Dan to masturbate. An imbalance apparently of no concern to you.
Mar 27 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.

You don't get that she's a 2nd rank person in this relationship?
Mar 27 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
The love stalk.
Mar 27 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.

She's being excessively deferential here. The point is not to get permission to shag others, but to get her to claim more space for herself, and for him to think about their situation.
Mar 27 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
The Week in Review -- Curious Minds
15 Questions, moderate response.

1-- Presumed woman and her husband have been seeking a 3rd. She asked a male friend of both after having been very flirty with him, if he were interested. He said yes, but she wasn't ready for that night. Later she texted him about it, but he ignored her. What should she take from this?

2-- Person's friend's bf won't go down on her, even though she asks. The friend says that's the only way she can come. How to convince friend her pleasure must be her priority?

3-- 42yo bi female with high sex drive who always squirts when coming. How to deal with common belief "women aren't supposed to be horny all the time."

4-- Person has female friend who is very Christian, socially liberal, sexually repressed, and about to marry. How to get her to explore her sexuality before the event? Give her a vibrator?

5-- 2 Married gays divorced in order to bring in another guy. They will have surrogate pregnancies with their sisters.

6-- 31yo complains 47yo husband takes too long to come. How to speed this up?

7-- 47yo husband complains he lasts too long for his 31yo wife.

8-- Column reader since 90s. What has struck Dan about the letters to him?

9-- Wants Dan to give his thoughts about Justin Trudeau.

10-- When will Dan move to Canada?

11-- Is polyamory after marriage ok?

12-- Submissive gay boy wants to lick Dan's boots.

13-- Straight male has male 20y friend who has transitioned to female. All she talks about now is transitioning, which he finds tiresome. How can he get her to tone it down?

14-- Are lesbians more into astrology?

15-- Woman complains male partner only wants 1/wk. Ok for her to masturbate to round up her sex life?

This week is another round of quickies-- this time from Dan's engagement at the Curious Minds Weekend in Toronto, hosted by Lisan Jutras. GBrooks missed being firdt. Do multiple orasms compensate for periods? How about male baldness? Griz finally revealed yes, she did 69 with her husband. Does shaved genitalia increase oral sex? Women considering testosterone. Peronal recollections of doing without. Trudeau and Francis. The Catholic heirachy's love of children. Is a dildo an adequate substitute for a dick?
Mar 26 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.

Suggest to him it should be alright for you to get your sexual desires secretly fulfilled elsewhere.