commented on SL Letter of the Day: Friendly Fire
@3, I agree, except for the part where Dan said that gay men could be best friends with their exes while straight men can't. I actually pretty much agree but I think it might make me a hypocrite.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Armed Forces
Wouldn't the best profile just say, "I am liberal and open-minded and...looking to have some NSA sex before I leave for the army"? I bet tons of ladies would be into that.
Apr 28, 2013
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Mixed Signals
Oooh, this is the column that turned me into a Savage Love reader when I ran across it in print in 2005. I still quote the "Alaskan National Damaged Goods Refuge" line to people on a regular basis. Great to see it again!
Mar 5, 2013
commented on Savage Love Episode 331
I agree with @21, 22, 23. I had an obsessive fantasy of being fattened up and eaten when I was little (like age 4-8) and I used to think about it when I masturbated. So it was definitely sexual! I thought Hansel and Gretel was like the hottest story ever. Many little girls (like me) masturbate at that age. I don't have that fetish anymore at all; grew out of it when I realized what sex was and got interested in that instead. Mine never turned into a phobia but I could imagine it occurring from shame as you learn what sexuality is and realize that your weird fantasy wasn't "innocent." I just wanted the caller to know she's not alone, since my experience (minus the phobia) was very similar.