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Sep 17, 2013 Catface Meowmers commented on Six (Actually Eight) Reasons Why You Shouldn't Send Your Daughter to College.
@18

Don't you get it?? IT'S TOO LATE. Your daughters are doomed to marry lazy men and support their failed home businesses. YOU FAILED THEM.
Aug 7, 2013 Catface Meowmers commented on Savage Love.
Since almost everyone is talking about the first two letters, I'll address the third. I think the older brother needs to calm down a bit. He admits he talked a lot about his "triumphs" when they were in high school, but I don't think he realizes how much of an effect this had on his brother.

I was a late bloomer, never even dated in high school, and believe me, it sucks hearing about all the fun other people are having. It would suck even worse to be hearing it from an older brother, someone you look up to as a role model. Odds are the younger brother felt like he was failing as a man, since his cool older brother was telling him about all the sex that he could have been having if he was just a little cooler and more confident.

So yeah, maybe the present oversharing sucks. But it sounds like the behavior is being informed by the history the brothers share. So LW needs to chill out a bit and try to understand that there are probably deeper issues being worked out on his brother's side.
Jul 15, 2013 Catface Meowmers commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Secret to Making Monogamy Work (And Some Bonus TMI).
I'm confused. The LW talks about "the secret to our successfully monogamous relationship," but before that he talked about how his "wife had a one-night stand while [he] was on a business trip".

It's great that they're all happy and in love, but their marriage hasn't been successfully monogamous. She fucked someone else while he was out of town. So their relationship is more "mostly monogamous" or "currently monogamous". Save the "successful" label for people who can muster the small amount of self-control it takes to not cheat on their partner.
Jun 20, 2013 Catface Meowmers commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Tell-Tale Handjob.
@Minerva

First off, calm yourself with the sexism bullshit. I was responding about this specific situation, I don't have to qualify my remarks with every possible fucking thing I believe about infidelity and every possible situation that could occur. Chill out.

Now, as to your example, if a guy goes to a strip club and gets groped by a stripper, then fingers her, he's cheating, assuming his spouse/S.O. thinks he's cheating.

But if a guy just goes and watches a stripper get naked, then it's not a comparable situation, is it? Also, it's entirely beside the point, since my point was that the wronged party gets to decide how hurt they are. If the guy's wife doesn't like him going to strip clubs and thinks it's cheating, she gets to decide whether or not to put up with the behavior.

She gets the final call on whether the strip club equals cheating. Just like the letter writer gets the final call on whether or not his wife rewarding a stranger with a handjob for groping her is an infidelity too far. The genders have nothing to do with it. Sexism has nothing to do with it.
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Jun 20, 2013 Catface Meowmers commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Tell-Tale Handjob.
@71

Yeah I agree with you, I'm not saying he SHOULD/HAS TO divorce her, I'm just saying that if he decides that the cheating is too much, he's fully justified in his decision, regardless of when it happened. (this is assuming the cheating actually happened, which it sounds like it did.)
But it's his call to make.

Despite all this Sex at Dawn hullabaloo, it's not that hard to avoid cheating. It's just easier to cheat and then tell yourself "Oh I couldn't help it I was caught up in the moment and we're not even biologically wired to be faithful and I feel bad and I know I'll never do something like that again and blah blah bullshit".
Jun 18, 2013 Catface Meowmers commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Tell-Tale Handjob.
well the guy said she "stepped way over the line", so i'm not even sure if the stuff he wanted her to talk about involved her fucking other dudes. sounds more like he likes to hear about guys hitting on her and any sexy thoughts she might have about the situation.

Letting your trainer grope you and then jerking him off is a completely different situation. I hope she was making it up, because if not it's definitely an acceptable reason for the guy to divorce her.
Apr 8, 2013 Catface Meowmers commented on SL Letter of the Day: Breaking the Code.
@21

"In the end, both guys come and the girls do that thing where they spit jizz into each other's mouths."

I believe that's called "snowballing".
Mar 12, 2013 Catface Meowmers commented on SL Letter of the Day: Tweet Tweet Tweet.
@2

Or she could find someone who she just doesn't have anything in common with besides sex who isn't a shitty person. Then she gets the sex without validating some shit's shitty existence, and now that shit is going to keep on shittying because he knows that not only does it work, but that they'll come back for more regardless of how shitty of a person he is.

Basically, shit like that makes the world a shittier place. Shhhiiiittttttttttt.
Mar 12, 2013 Catface Meowmers commented on SL Letter of the Day: Tweet Tweet Tweet.
"but i can either have a fling with a shitty guy or -"

Ugh, can't she just expend a little effort to find a non-shitty guy to fuck? She already knows he's a shitty guy, so she's basically rewarding him for being a shitty human being by fucking him again.
Jan 30, 2013 Catface Meowmers commented on Savage Love.
I think MEXICO left out a very important detail: did she do the gangbangs before she broke up with him or not???