Jun 5, 2011 LisaD commented on Boston Red Sox to Create "It Gets Better" Video.
Yesterday my 16-yo stepdaughter said she was "in love" with someone, and when I asked, "a guy?" b/c it wasn't really clear, she said: "Yes, I'm straight. Trust me, if I were gay or bi, everybody would know about it!" So glad to live in a world where we can have this conversation.
May 22, 2011 LisaD commented on Every Child Deserves a Mother and a Father.
I hate these posts. But here's another one if you haven't seen it: http://www.chicagobreakingnews.com/news/…
Feb 12, 2011 LisaD commented on Hello, I Am Fat.
"But this is what's behind this entire thing—it's not about "health," it's about "eeeewwwww." "

"Fat people already are ashamed. It's taken care of. No further manpower needed on the shame front, thx."

I don't even know what to say but thank you, Lindy x 1,000,000
Dec 22, 2010 LisaD commented on DADT Is History.
@16 that's some family values right there. Merry Christmas, Dan!
Oct 29, 2010 LisaD commented on SL Letter of the Day: Butt Secks!.
Let me add to the chorus of straight women saying: I have my BEST orgasms during anal. (Not porn-style, bent-over, pounding anal.) Here's how I learned to love it: my husband used two fingers in my vagina and gently pushed at my anus with his pinky while giving me oral. Over time we moved up to anal beads and butt plugs. Now it's in regular rotation. Usually I'm the one asking for it. There are certain things I do only for my husband's enjoyment... but anal is not one of them!
Oct 27, 2010 LisaD commented on Savage Love.
Dear complainers: Besides being away from home and sick (I guess? I don't have a hidden camera following him.), Dan is running a newspaper, taping podcasts, and--did you hear?--managing an insanely successful online anti-bullying GLBT support campaign that has been covered on every news network and garnered attention all the way up to the White House. So yeah, maybe he has better things to do this week than respond to frankly ridiculous sex questions for your entertainment.
Oct 17, 2010 LisaD commented on SL Letter of the Day: Pie Hole.
Funny, I am happy to get my face and body splattered with semen, roll around in it, whatever, even get it in my mouth and spit it out, but I can't swallow swallowing. Wanna trade dudes?
Aug 10, 2010 LisaD commented on SL Letter of the Day: And Sometimes No Means....
#5 - practice, practice, practice

#22 and others - I have a safeword with my husband. Of course he knows when "no" (or "ouch") means no/stop and when it means "holy shit, yes!" I've never used it and we don't, like, review it and shake hands before every encounter. But it helped him ease into topping after years of practicing no means no.

I think this is great advice for this particular couple. I hope it works out.... hope as in, please send a follow-up letter and provide details!
Jul 23, 2010 LisaD commented on SL Letter of the Day: Enjoy.
Yeah, it's surmountable. I met my husband when we were 24 (me) and 42 (him). It stopped being a problem when we (mostly me) stopped thinking it was a problem. Our families are fine, his kids are fine, everything is great. If neither of you wants this to be an LTR, that's cool, but you don't have to assume that it won't work because of the age gap.
Jul 2, 2010 LisaD commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Wronged Party.
FRO, you feel used and unloved now? JUST WAIT until you're a divorced dad, and those demands for deposits are literal, and you're sending a paycheck to her every month in return for some 8 hours a week spent with your child.

Do what you want about your sex life--get counseling, sleep with other people, or whatever. But as long as this issue is unresolved, STOP MAKING DEPOSITS. You are locked in a bad situation now, and having a baby would be throwing away the key. Not to mention bringing an innocent child into an unhappy family.

And whatever you decide to do, start doing it now, before the baby comes. Don't believe any nonsense she says about what you can do or what she'll do "as soon as." When you're both happy with your sex life and are sure you can live with it, then resume getting pregnant.

The good thing about her wanting to get pregnant is that it finally puts some pressure on this situation that has been festering for years. FRO, this is your last chance to either fix or get a clean break in your marriage.