commented on SL Letter of the Day: Mr. Wonderful
Ooooof. I had to read half this letter through my fingers like a goddamn horror movie. Girl! You don't have to put up with this! He's twice your age, he's your FIRST PARTNER, he blames all his problems on you. Loving someone really hard does not cure them. I repeat: LOVING SOMEONE REALLY HARD DOES NOT CURE THEM.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Sample Sizes
Yikes, I've gotta add my disapproval here. LW says "he's given up" and Dan thinks he should be cut some slack? Nope, he doesn't care about your pleasure and is clearly happy to pathologize your libido ("he never had problems getting past lovers off and I'm the only one who he's had this problem with"). DTMFA, and spend some time getting to know your OWN body, and figuring out what works for you.
Aug 9, 2012
commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Straight Husband's Fascination With Penises
Yeah, I thought this advice was just terrible. The penis can be a fetish object unto itself, so LW's husband may well be attracted to the penis but not the guy it's attached to, and it's also possible that he gets off on the "submission" aspect of blowing another guy. If LW and her husband are happy together, they should stay together. Period.
I also like @10's idea: if he's into penis, try a strap-on.