Apr 21, 2015
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Blown Apart
she might change her mind, I did. Early in my sex life I was in a relationship where I was under huge pressure to give head, and it was painful, boring and he was super selfish about it After leaving him I promised myself that I never had to do that again. So I'v always told any new guy that I do not like giving head and don't really do it. If he's gracious about this then I'm safe to relax, knowing I'm not going be harassed about it. Over the years I've practiced giving head to these laid back guys, and I've come to like it quite a bit. Given that I have a small jaw and a strong gag reflex I almost never do it too completion, but it's a fun part of foreplay...
Jul 8, 2013
commented on The Tech Industry's Meritocracy Has No Time for Unions
as a nurse, having worked both union and non union jobs, I can tell you that without the benefits and protections supplied through union lobbying of governments and hospitals, nursing can be a truly horrible job.
May 30, 2013
commented on In Defense of Monsters
wow, thank you so much for writing that.
as someone who is not gay, or queer, but has alway felt so odd and creepy and just wrong, and has always loved monsters, thank you.
May 9, 2013
commented on The Big Trees of San Francisco
SF bay area ntive here
it's a Eucalyptus, they are australian in origin but hardy and fast growing, we have them everywhere and I love them despite their interloper status