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Aug 13, 2015 thecheesegirl commented on Emerging New Fetish: Ovipositors Getting Their Oviposit On.
I believe Dan even once said something like, "when your brain gives you fears, your body often takes those lemons and makes bonerade". It's not too far-fetched to think that a certain percentage of people saw Alien at the age of 10-13 and got the "holy shit that's terrifying" and the "holy shit that's hot" circuitry crossed; that's the impetus for a lot of fetishes.
Jan 21, 2015 thecheesegirl commented on SL Letter of the Day: Lotion Up.
I love how he describes himself as a "no beat-around-the-bush kind of guy" and then details the stupid games he's been playing in order to avoid just directly stating what he wants. Fucker's clueless on at least three distinct levels.
Jan 15, 2015 thecheesegirl commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Monstrous Fantasy.
@27: “Vanilla with sprinkles" is a fucking brilliant description that I am totally going to steal.
Jan 7, 2015 thecheesegirl commented on Savage Love.
Y'know, I'm not terribly into crossdressers, but the idea of a butch dyke in lacy panties is somehow intriguing...
Aug 16, 2014 thecheesegirl commented on Atheist Cancels Kickstarter for a Book Comparing God to an Abusive Boyfriend.
Speaking as an actual survivor of domestic violence (as in the, genuine fear for my life, my abuser went to jail for what he did to me, I skipped town when I found out he was getting out of jail, type of abuse), I don't mind the comparison at all, actually, although I might not have read the book simply because of the imagery. I actually just heard about this now, and the other day I compared God to an abuser (although what I said was, "If I treated my children the way God treated His, they'd haul me away for child abuse," which is, I admit, not exactly the same).
Apr 2, 2014 thecheesegirl commented on That Ebola Outbreak In Guinea....
@12 It's been a while since I've told you how awesome you are.
Mar 22, 2014 thecheesegirl commented on How Many Americans Support Themselves on Less Than $10.10 an Hour?.
@30: Single motherhood may have been less common in the days when women had fewer options, but at what cost? I spoke to a woman last year who had been staying home to raise her children, and finally took the kids and left her husband when he threw her into a wall and brandished a hunting knife at her. If she hadn't been able to get welfare and food stamps, she might not have been able to leave.
(And for those so heartless as to suggest that she should have chosen a better husband in the first place, he only became violent after developing PTSD during his military service.)
Mar 19, 2014 thecheesegirl commented on Savage Love.
@52: Okay, I assumed. My last sentence should read, "...he doesn't even have to find someone who's as into it as he is..."
Mar 19, 2014 thecheesegirl commented on Savage Love.
Also, tangentially related funny story: when he was a teenager, the guy in question in my comment @51 was confronted by his stepmother in a similar way as LW3, except she printed out the contents of his browsing history and presented them to him. She asked, "What on earth were you doing with this on your computer?!"

His response? "Jerking off, mostly." His dad had to leave the room to laugh, and Mom never brought it up again.
Mar 19, 2014 thecheesegirl commented on Savage Love.
With regard to DOPE's letter: I have, in my life, dressed up in a leopard-print stretch velvet catsuit, strapped on a dildo shaped like a tiger dick, and pegged a dude.
Am I a furry? Not even a little. I did it because I loved and appreciated him and wanted to indulge his kinks, even though I don't share them and even though they're pretty out there. Point being, assuming your son is, in fact, sexually aroused by Pokemon, he doesn't even have to find a girl who's as into it as he is to have his kink with his partner.