Nov 7, 2015 HK commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Not a Rescue.
The LW sounds so selfish! just like a lot of commenters here. Talking about her "bad behavior" and "unresolved rape" (how the fuck do you resolve rape? You are so lucky you have no idea what this to be raped. That doesn't "resolve"). The victim blaming and shaming here is sick. she needs HELP and compassion. she is so young to have to depend on an abuser. And her only help is this dude who clearly cares more about himself. She Should do what she can to get out but also keep working towards some real independence. Which is very hard. :(
Nov 6, 2015 HK commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Awkward Boy.
or give him two weeks to make hotel arrangements and offer to pay part of it. He's a Brit, hostels arent a foreign concept to him and are cheap if she is in a big city, or a motel wont be too bad. His arrangements with his parents are his buisness and he needs to step up his Adult game if he thinks he can just go overseas without his own money like that, and hopefully his parents make that clear as they bail him out "one last time".
Nov 2, 2015 HK commented on SL Letter of the Day: Mismatched.
What is up with people calling her sex negative?! If not wanting sex often or not wanting PIV sex is sex negative, that makes aces and lesbians and a lot of other normal, healthy, sex-positive-because-they-fully-support-YOU-dummy! People are anti-sex. But as my hyphenated adverb suggests, me not wanting dick doesn't make me sex negative, having a chip on my shoulder about YOU wanting dick does, so stop being so damn judgey about people with low libidos and/or less interest in being penetrated.
Oct 21, 2015 HK commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Problem With My Gay Brother Isn't That He's Gay.
@msanon #8, sorrynotsorry, the "tumblr sjw" straw crowd doesnt actually exist beyond He-Man-Woman-Hater type forums.
Oct 19, 2015 HK commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Column A and Column B.
steam does have an effect on asthma. As do carcinogens. Again, just because you personally do not have symptoms from an irritant does not mean other people do not.
Oct 14, 2015 HK commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Column A and Column B.
PS: how much something irritates your lungs has nothing to do with smell, which is why you can suffocate on a gas you cant smell. !&@$#!
Oct 14, 2015 HK commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Column A and Column B.
I LOVE* (sarcastically) how people who vape and dont have asthma are Medical Experts on what triggers asthma. I am an ex-smoker, medical student with asthma and let me tell you, any sort of smoke including vaping, exhaust, campfire and weed smoke can irritate lungs. Just because YOU dont have asthma and like vaping doesnt mean asthmatics are pretending when they cough, gtf over yourself if that is your assumption.
Apr 8, 2013 HK commented on Savage Love Episode 336.
As a lesbian - THANK YOU!!! Sometimes when I go to parties, a drunk straight woman will come up to me & try to get me to make out with her to impress her straight boy friend. I am not a prop, & I AM NOT YOUR SEX TOY. I am always super mean to those girls, & I can see 'em coming a mile away. I already have a girl friend, I have a low sex drive, I'm picky, I don't like straight girls, & LESBIAN DOES NOT MEAN BISEXUAL.
Aug 28, 2012 HK commented on Savage Love Episode 305.
I can't drink because of a medical condition- I have a shitty bladder. My best friend also can't drink cuz of a bad colon. The recovering alcoholic should just say "I can't drink because of a medical condition." It's technically true anyway, as addiction is considered a medical condition. If they keep asking, she can just say she doesn't want to talk about it- they'll let it go.
Nov 19, 2011 HK commented on Savage Love Episode 258.
I was gonna say what John said...