A bit late to comment now, but a suggestion for the woman looking for female porn-type habits; while my husband watches porn on his computer I read horny stories on
www.literotica.com and then we both rush off to the bedroom to enjoy the fruits of our browsing :) Only problem is I seem to have developed a bit of an addiction to feeling this way and spend waaaay too much time reading those damn stories. He says he really doesn't mind though, and now is happy to make dinner just so I can read another one. Try it!
" You have to learn to shrug off minor and sometimes not-so-minor annoyances—maybe even a betrayal or two over the decades—because an ability to forgive and truly forget is necessary for the survival of any long-term relationship. If you're having a hard time getting there, AWH, speak to your doctor about medical marijuana."
Thanks for spreading such good advice Dan :)