Dal Tiger
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May 15, 2013 Dal Tiger commented on Savage Love.
I'm not sure how lesbian or bi girls feel, but as a sober straight guy, I love to watch any girls kissing, drunk or sober, straight, bi or lesbian. But these girls are setting the guys up for disappointment when they find out later that the girls are 100% straight. The guy probably gets with one of the kissing girls with the hopes one day of a threesome with both girls, which of course, will never happen. Then the guy feels lied to and cheated, and like he has wasted his time in a relationship that was based on misdirection.
May 9, 2012 Dal Tiger commented on Savage Love.
It is a good thing ABW did not include an e-mail address, her inbox would be flooded with guys wanting to fulfill that roll. I hope she doesn't try standing up in a crowded bar and asking all of the guys, "Who wants to have a threesome with two lesbians?", there may be a stampede. Most straight men would consider that opportunity akin to winning the lottery, the real problem will be narrowing down your choices.

Now, how do I volunteer?
Sep 29, 2011 Dal Tiger commented on SL Letter of the Day: Bad Tattitude.
While I generally don't agree with tattoos, I have yet to find anything I would want permanently inked on my body, if this is the only comfort ATU can get, then go for it.

That being said, by any chance are the ex's initials the same as the daughter's initials by any chance? That could explain ATU's girlfriend's flip out.
Jun 22, 2011 Dal Tiger commented on Bristol Palin: Levi Raped Me.
@98 It seems to me like you might have hit the nail on the head.

@112 While I dispute your numbers, the logic stands.

As a male, my only experience with rape was when an ex-girlfriend accused me or rape a week after I broke up with her, and then the subsequent harassment by her mother, etc. Of course, the rape never happened, for that matter, sex never happened, I broke up with her after two months because I noticed she was going a little psycho, which was proven after I broke it off. So I guess from my unique context, 100% of rape accusations are false. Of course, in the broad spectrum of society, I'm sure that number is significantly lower. I am, however, a firm believer that regretting it the next morning, does not constitute rape.

Also, if she cannot remember what happened, then how can she say for sure that she did not rape him? I will await Dan's column commenting on Levi's book where he is sure to talk about the same encounter!
May 4, 2011 Dal Tiger commented on Savage Love.
At no point in time does CL even hint that it could be rape. All of those nuts that are claiming it was rape are reading way too much into the letter. Yes, rape is bad and should never happen, but I refused to get a handwritten notarized letter each time before sex. Stop jumping to conclusions that have nothing to do with the question!

My read on the letter, was that they were friends, and they liked each other, but agreed that nothing sexual would happen between them because he was in a relationship. Then one night during a drunken escapade, they hooked up, briefly, and the next day she regretted it. She freaked because it was against her moral code to screw a guy in a relationship, and she broke that code, and helped him cheat. Later, she thought she might be pregnant as a result and freaked again, but it turned out to be false.

Her question, was again about her questionable morals, and whether she should tell the sperm donor IF she turned out to be pregnant. My answer to that would have been "No", given how she already freaked out in front of him once before.
Jan 19, 2011 Dal Tiger commented on Savage Love.
For UOF:

For the most part, I agree with the advice of Dan and Grant, but if you really want to get down with that guy, you may have to be sneaky. I would tell your boyfriend that you want to spice things up and have a threesome. When he calms down, tell him you want to have a MMF threesome first, then a FFM threesome next. Then casually steer him towards inviting the guy you like, and then lay back and try out the friend with your boyfriend. This scenario will, of course, require you to find a nice girl to share your boyfriend with for an evening, but you are GGG right?

For PHM:

Dan is absolutely right, explain to your boyfriend how important foreplay is, and then explain to him exactly how to do it. Make sure you keep telling him what to do and keep encouraging him the whole time.
Oct 6, 2010 Dal Tiger commented on Savage Love.

This seems rather simple, he wanted the two of you to try something new that he thought he would like, and after some prodding, you agreed. Whether this was cuckolding or threesomes really doesn't matter, he was present both times it happened, and was probably part of the attraction. You then went ahead and started screwing one of his friends without him, and understandably, he has a problem with it. I'm sure you have rationalized it that he started this, and that you are doing it for him, but you are being selfish by not including him. Now he has asked you to stop screwing his friend without him, and to be honest, he shouldn't have to ask. You went well beyond what he asked of you, and that is not GGG, you are cheating on him, and probably telling him it was his idea. The choice is simple, you choose your husband or the friend.

I approached my wife with a similar offer a few years ago, but with one stipulation, that I had to be there if anything happened with the third person, anything else would be considered cheating. She agreed, and to the best of my knowledge, she has never been with anyone else. But I know the thought that she could be with someone else with me watching is enough to get her motor purring sometimes...
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Sep 8, 2010 Dal Tiger commented on Savage Love.
When I first began dating my wife 17 years ago, she was in high school and working at the local Tim Hortons. I'd pick her up at the end of her shift and she would literally smell like a donut. It was great. She left Tim Hortons when she was done high school, and while I miss that smell about her, I'm still capable of performing just fine for the last 16 years. How long was this guy masturbating to Mrs. Butterworth? I would tend to blame this guy's death grip on his penis while masturbating than Aunt Jemima.