Flying Monkey of Froth
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Apr 22, 2011 Flying Monkey of Froth commented on FUCK YOU, FEMINIST BIGOT.
By the way, if you're a man with a preference for smart, assertive women, a women's studies class isn't a bad place to meet one. And a man who meets a woman he likes would be a chump not to engage her in conversation and possibly ask her out. Nothing douchey about that.
Apr 22, 2011 Flying Monkey of Froth commented on FUCK YOU, FEMINIST BIGOT.
@19: Well-played!
Feb 3, 2011 Flying Monkey of Froth commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Sexual Reflects On Nearly Asexual Ex.
Since being "minimally sexual" seems to be more common among women than among men, I'd think that a "minimally sexual" man would be a good catch if he found a way to market himself to the right community. There's probably a dating website for them somewhere. My point being -- DISCLOSE!
Jan 6, 2011 Flying Monkey of Froth commented on SL Letter of the Day: Your Outer Dan Savage Disapproves.
@44 -- Probably companionship + intimacy (and sex), without it being high-stakes. Because you know it's gonna end. Whereas dating a potential life-partner (who isn't already in a primary-relationship with someone else) is high-stakes and fraught with worry and nervousness and expectation.

@4 -- That's how I feel. I think it's an introvert thing too. . .I need my alone time, and interacting with people can be exhausting to me.
Dec 22, 2010 Flying Monkey of Froth commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Electric Company You Keep.
I appreciate the comments from those who have been to Body Electric workshops. I haven't, but I've been a student of tantra for several years and I like hearing people's reports.

To the skeptics. . .you're really being narrow-minded and you don't know what you're missing. Which is fine -- I'm not interested in converting people or changing minds. But assuming you know everything there is to know about sexuality, or about experiences that feel spiritual -- when you haven't given something like this a try -- is dumbassery.
Dec 2, 2010 Flying Monkey of Froth commented on Someday, Slog, and that day may never come, I'll call upon you to do a service for me....
You are really abusing your power, Dan. And yet, I voted, because I am a zombie with no will of my own.
Nov 27, 2010 Flying Monkey of Froth commented on Remember When You Could Wear Any Old Baseball Cap To The Airport?.
Kick some ass on the Colbert Report!
Nov 24, 2010 Flying Monkey of Froth commented on SL Letter of the Day: No Easy Answer.
If you Google "Women Who Want to Want," there's a really interesting NY times article from last year: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/29/magazi… about therapeutic intervention for low sex drive, and the difference between spontaneous and responsive sexual desire. For some women who have low sexual desire, they don't have spontaneous desire but if they experience arousal they can have desire follow arousal. So if she allows her husband to get her ramped up first (maybe sensual massage as foreplay), desire may click into gear after she begins to feel aroused.
Nov 19, 2010 Flying Monkey of Froth commented on Correcting the Record.
I agree that Saliva Terrorist is an awesome name. Sounds like something from a parody porno movie.
Nov 6, 2010 Flying Monkey of Froth commented on And For Slog Readers In Spain....
I hope someone manages to record the kiss-a-thon and post it on YouTube. It would give me a boner. It'll probably give the pope a boner too.