Aug 1, 2012
allfullup commented on Savage Love.
Extreme Restraints is out of stock on funnel gags as I write this. Coincidence?
Feb 1, 2012
allfullup commented on Savage Love.
Re HITME, I'm gonna go with "likes secrets". That one will be a tough kink to break, not least because you can't know if you've broken it or just driven it underground.
If that is his kink, it seems she could do well to make honesty more rewarding than secrets. There are plenty of ways to do that, from the slow handjob interrogation/indoctrination (one of my personal favorites) to secretly monitoring his activities and contouring his rewards and punishments accordingly.
Good luck, HITME. You're a treasure, and any sub would be lucky to have you playing along with them.
If that is his kink, it seems she could do well to make honesty more rewarding than secrets. There are plenty of ways to do that, from the slow handjob interrogation/indoctrination (one of my personal favorites) to secretly monitoring his activities and contouring his rewards and punishments accordingly.
Good luck, HITME. You're a treasure, and any sub would be lucky to have you playing along with them.
Jan 11, 2012
allfullup commented on Savage Love.
Another great and subtle jape on the Columbia Journalism Review's blog article "Santorum Goes After Social Security" (emphasis mine):
@51, it's because, in their eyes, polygamy means less cunt to go around and some men might end up without a cunt to abuse and control. Note how the guys bringing this up are often so fortunate as to have one secretly despairing woman who can scarcely tolerate them and only stick around because of a misguided sense of duty -- the likely losers when the two-by-two life-pairing nonsense is no longer enforced at gunpoint.
Speaking of nonconsensual enforcement of cultural norms, here's a nice article suggesting that ab-only sex ed encourages bullying, which the culture warriors, being bullies themselves, are just bully about:
http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/article/20…
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But a better idea as the campaign progresses is to ask [His Frothiness] such a question point blank and report his answer. If a slippery candidate doesn’t dot the Is and cross the Ts, the press surely should.
@51, it's because, in their eyes, polygamy means less cunt to go around and some men might end up without a cunt to abuse and control. Note how the guys bringing this up are often so fortunate as to have one secretly despairing woman who can scarcely tolerate them and only stick around because of a misguided sense of duty -- the likely losers when the two-by-two life-pairing nonsense is no longer enforced at gunpoint.
Speaking of nonconsensual enforcement of cultural norms, here's a nice article suggesting that ab-only sex ed encourages bullying, which the culture warriors, being bullies themselves, are just bully about:
http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/article/20…
Nov 16, 2011
allfullup commented on Savage Love.
NQAD: Extending what #52 said, you might even try an interrogation scene. Simply tie him up and give him a soft, slow, well-lubed handjob while you "interview" him about his naughty little submissive fantasies. Tone of voice can be whatever you feel will get the most erotic response out of him, but if in doubt, start out professional with a hint of sensuality. Stroke him while he's still compliant, coherent and clear-speaking and pause if he lapses or if he gets too close to orgasm. There's no hurry. You will probably notice him becoming more subby as the scene continues. If he has any fetishes you know about, consider making use of them. Applying an exam glove before you start can help set the scene and will ease cleanup afterward. It's your call whether he comes at the end or not, but I recommend going with the opposite of what you think he'd prefer.
Big caution about this type of scenario: just like in official interrogations, information obtained may be unreliable and should be verified before use. He might get a bit ahead of his actual readiness level; note these in your head for later. He might say things he think will please you; a hand gently closed around his balls accompanied by "It'll be much easier if you only tell me the truth" can dissuade that behavior.
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Big caution about this type of scenario: just like in official interrogations, information obtained may be unreliable and should be verified before use. He might get a bit ahead of his actual readiness level; note these in your head for later. He might say things he think will please you; a hand gently closed around his balls accompanied by "It'll be much easier if you only tell me the truth" can dissuade that behavior.
Jun 22, 2011
allfullup commented on Savage Love.
The D party wanted Weiner gone since the first moment he uttered the words "single payer". The cock shot was just the smoking gun, as it were. Recent history shows that politicians who help enhance the economic inequality of the rich, powerful and well-connected generally find their youthful indiscretions kept quieter.
Dec 8, 2010
allfullup commented on Savage Love.
CGT: A shower followed by Saran Wrap are your friends. He might consider using a different soap to wash down there. Some just don't cut the funk.
Oct 6, 2010
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Oct 6, 2010
allfullup commented on Savage Love.
@LOUD, do I know her?
Kidding aside, this is one of the few times I disagree with Dan. It can be hard to be quiet sometimes and it's much closer to hardwired than an "if you really loved me" thing. So consider enlisting the help of a pillow or a gag or various parts of your body to absorb some of the noise. Or have sex over at her place.
Kidding aside, this is one of the few times I disagree with Dan. It can be hard to be quiet sometimes and it's much closer to hardwired than an "if you really loved me" thing. So consider enlisting the help of a pillow or a gag or various parts of your body to absorb some of the noise. Or have sex over at her place.
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