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Nov 6, 2013 iluvgays commented on SLLOTD: Eeeewwwwww.
This is an old letter, so maybe Dan's addressed it in the interim, but I am so tired of gay men saying they are disgusted by vaginas. It's not ok for gay men to say that. Why? Because straight men are disgusted by vaginas, too. Sure, they want to put their dick in one, but it is not uncommon to come across a dude who doesn't want to put his face down there. In fact, there is a general cultural vibe that vaginas are disgusting. So cut it out, gay men, you're not helping. If you are disgusted by vaginas, just shut the hell up about it.
Sep 19, 2013 iluvgays commented on SL Letter of the Day: OKStupid.
Hooray for judybrowni at #60. Listen to this woman. Especially you, Eudaemonic.
Sep 18, 2013 iluvgays commented on SLLOTD: Women's Work.
Oy, Dan. I understand that your arrangement with Terry works. But you don't have all the historical baggage that women have with housework. Even if women don't want it to, it still means something different when a woman takes primary responsibility for chores.

I have no solution for these people, but, Dan. I think you know this now, but your experience does not represent the entirety of truth. If you had to write this again today I think you would write it differently.
May 10, 2013 iluvgays commented on SL Letter of the Day: I'm Out.
If you're white, you never, ever call a Black person a nigger, not even in jest. If you are straight, you never, ever call a gay person a faggot, even in jest. If you are a man, you never, ever call a woman a cunt, even in jest. Those are the rules.
Apr 23, 2013 iluvgays commented on SL Letter of the Day: Mate Or Mat?.
IPJ is the most sane and articulate person on here.
Apr 22, 2013 iluvgays commented on SL Letter of the Day: Mate Or Mat?.
Yeah, EricaP, he doesn't want to be bothered. To: a) ask for a hall pass or even go out there and pursue someone else; or b) go to therapy (on his own! without her!). His letter basically says WAH WAH WAH WAH-- I want advice but I don't want advice that tells me to actually do anything--WAH WAH WAH.

Feb 7, 2013 iluvgays commented on SL Letter of the Day: You Cucked Up.
Not all straights are breeders!!! Just sayin'. And Dan's a homo and he bred. Is that even the correct past tense? If the letter-writer was looking for a funny term for straight people, how about "p-in-v-ers."
Feb 10, 2012 iluvgays commented on SL Letter of the Day: Life Sentence.
God, I started typing out a long answer, but that's not really necessary. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS WOMAN. She is 20. That is par for the course at that age for women. Any advice Dan gives should be aimed at making the guy a more competent sex partner.
Oct 18, 2011 iluvgays commented on O They Will Know We Are Christians, There Is No Morality Without Religion, Every Child Deserves a Mother and Father....
This is horrible, but has been known for quite some time. It is of course good that Spain is finally *officially* grappling with this shameful episode in its past (among many shameful episodes that came out of the Spanish Civil War). But thank goodness it's over. What's more troubling, to my mind, is the Catholic Church's support of current politicians (i.e., Rick Frothy Mix), right-wing Spanish politicians, and right-wing Italian officials. The Church looks upon Spain from the 30s to the 70s as its heyday and would love to see such power return.
Jul 17, 2011 iluvgays commented on An Apology.
Actually, I kinda think you need to apologize to Bill Maher for stepping all over his laughs after his "government funding of witchcraft" quip. It was a good joke but you leapt in immediately with the farm subsidies stuff. I get it. I do that, too. I get too overly enthusiastic and have trouble holding back.