Oct 25, 2014 Turtle commented on SL Letter of the Day: Clitoral Indirection.
USE LUBE!!!!!!!!!
USE LUBE!!!!!!!!!
USE LUBE!!!!!!!!!

With toys, and with your bf. Seriously, if it goes dry, it's going to feel AWFUL - so don't let it go dry. Get a good quality lube like Sliquid and make sure no finger or toy touches your clit unless it's very wet.

Common misconception: If you're turned on enough, you'll be wet enough. (I actually had a bf who made me feel GUILTY for needing lube, as if vaginal dryness meant I had failed in some way.) But lots of things - diet, medication, hormonal contraception - can affect your vagina's ability to produce lubrication on demand, and if you're using condoms, well, they just increase the lube demand.
Oct 7, 2014 Turtle commented on SL Letter of the Day: Another Thank You Note.
That breathing situation looks scary dangerous, but I like that he gets a pillow while he's being wrapped, objectified, and cuckolded.
Jul 2, 2014 Turtle commented on Savage Love.
So let's say an opposite sex couple is seeking a bisexual male third? What would he be called?
Jun 25, 2014 Turtle commented on Savage Love.
Geezer sex should be applauded by everyone who doesn't want to become celibate upon attaining geezerhood.

NHA should look into long term contraception. Condoms and pills can fail, but an IUD, patch, or injection is always operating.
Apr 8, 2014 Turtle commented on Much More Important Game of Thrones Poll.
So they replaced Faabio with Robb Stark II?

Really, they should have stuck with the blue beard. No one would have forgotten him then.
Feb 28, 2014 Turtle commented on SL Letter of the Day: HOPE and Change and Second Opinions.
'Blithely telling people to go to a medical doctor' is about as far from irresponsible as it gets. It's not like Dan's peddling SSRIs on the side to the people who write to him.
Jun 30, 2012 Turtle commented on Terrible Sex Tips for Men.
1. "Hold her gaze for a minute. If she's blinking more than normal (which is about 15 times a minute), there's a good chance she's on the Pill; women on birth control blink 32 percent more than those who aren't.”

Or... bring condoms? Maybe?
Jun 30, 2012 Turtle commented on Are You a Queer Women Who Dates "Women and Trans Men"?.
If there's one place in our life where we're allowed to not be an "equal opportunity employer", it's in our dating life. If I only want to date brunette transwomen who wear orange socks, while completely ignoring the blonde cis-gendered green sock wearing community, that's my business. You can and should have toleration and respect for others, but that can't make you attracted to someone you aren't.
Jun 27, 2012 Turtle commented on SL Letter of the Day: Something's Going On—Can I Smell Yo Face?.
If he's cheating, there will be other clues, in his behaviour or a paper/text/email trail. Look for those. Then decide if cheating means the relationship is over.

Jun 19, 2012 Turtle commented on Signs From the Protest at the Michigan State Capitol Today.
I really disapprove of her language and deportment. She should have been standing on a chair yelling, "Stay out of my cunt, you fascist pigs!"