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Oct 30, 2013 gibson99 commented on SLLOTD: Did She Cheat?.
This guy may be a prude and what his wife did isn't cheating, but he has done one thing totally right by Dan's philosophy: honestly communicated to his wife what his boundaries are and what makes him uncomfortable.

Obviously, most of the commenters here think those boundaries are too strict, but 1) he communicated them and 2) she violated them.

If they disagree on the boundaries, they're incompatible and should split (and should have figured this out earlier in the relationship).

Dec 4, 2012 gibson99 commented on SL Letter of the Day: Sibling Kisses.
It might be disgusting, but consenting-adult incest is a victimless crime.

However, she seems to have some other red flag issues that prevent me from saying "go for it."

There's also how this will affect the family relationship later, but since you've already made out maybe that ship has already sailed.
Oct 31, 2012 gibson99 commented on Savage Love.
32 - Yes, if you can get Dan to quit bringing politics up in the column we'll keep it out of the comments.

I miss the old columns, which had more stories about cool stuff like scrotum inflation. Or shoving condom-covered bananas up your ass and shitting them back out.
Oct 31, 2012 gibson99 commented on Savage Love.
I'm glad to see so many going 3rd-party. Sorry, but tepid gay marriage support and other pandering doesn't make up for the continued military adventures, domestic spying, drone warfare, medical marijuana DEA raids, handouts to banks and insurance companies, and the other shit that has come out of Bush III's time in office.
Oct 24, 2012 gibson99 commented on Savage Love.
@21 - Thank you.
Jan 24, 2012 gibson99 commented on Savage Love Episode 275.
Dan I applaud you for saying that yes, obesity is unhealthy, which I'm sure you've taken some shit for from the fat acceptance proponents.

But there are people that look overweight that also eat healthy, exercise, and have perfectly healthy cholesterol levels, heart rates, etc. Some bodies really are just naturally plump at their peak level of health.
Oct 5, 2011 gibson99 commented on Savage Love.
I'm wondering how homophobic the comments were? Was he just saying "oh that's so gay", making fun of one of the flaming narcissists on the Style channel, or are we talking about seriously hateful comments?

I'm not making excuses for the guy, but knowing where his comments fall on the spectrum would shed some light on the situation.
Aug 24, 2011 gibson99 commented on Savage Love.
I have to say, it's nice to get some good ol'-fashioned weird sexuality back into Savage Love. The mushy relationship stuff gets kind of boring.
Aug 24, 2011 gibson99 commented on Savage Love.
@61 - Let me rephrase: you are correct when it comes to their rhetoric, the Republicans are worse when chasing after the ignorant old people vote. As far as what they actually do in office and their voting record, the difference becomes marginal. This is not unique to gay issues.
Aug 24, 2011 gibson99 commented on Savage Love.
@59 - Rand and Ron Paul at least qualify as fiscally conservative, and for my social liberal side they stand up for the 4th Amendment. Ron preaches against the drug war as well as all our current foreign wars. And they have actually operated and voted consistently with what they say. There are other issues I'm not so comfortable with them on and they're not perfect.

@61 - "Republicans balls-to-the-wall-out-and-out attack on gay people!"

There aren't many Democrats at the Santorum level, but they do not give a shit about equality. Also consider I never claimed to be a single-issue voter and often don't vote at all.