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Oct 23, 2013 InsignificantReader commented on Savage Love.
@86: I know he knows because I have explicitly told him exactly that on multiple occasions.

I guess my main concern is how to make sure that he doesn't come to the (erroneous) conclusion that I am unsatisfied with the amount of sex we do have. He is happy with an average of 2 to 3 times per week, whereas I could have sex multiple times a day. Now I know this looks like a kiss of death/mismatched libido sort of situation, but it's not as though I go around itching for sex constantly. It's just that I really, really enjoy getting it on with him, so why would I ever turn that down? To me it's like if someone was handing out free hundred-dollar bills...I would take every dang hundo they offered because cash is awesome, but it doesn't mean I am feeling impoverished just because I would always be down for more money.
Oct 23, 2013 InsignificantReader commented on Savage Love.
How do I figure out who initiates the sex in my relationship?

I am a straight (ish) lady in a (more than 1 year, less than 5 year) relationship with a dude. I would have sex with him LITERALLY any time, and he knows it. I am not being hyperbolic; I am at work right now, and if he asked me to leave and go bang him in the parking lot, I would. Over the course of our relationship, I have never NOT had sex when he has indicated his interest.

But that doesn't exactly count as initiating, does it? Because he still has to be the one to make a move, right? Anyone have any tips to make sure he feels appreciated without making him feel nagged for sex?
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