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Jan 12, 2016 Crackersnap commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Licensed Massage Practitioner Takes License.
I've had lots of massage work done on more intimate zones by both male and female practitioners. They assiduously avoid the nips. If you're uncomfortable, it was meant to arouse you.

My bff also is larger breasted and had an extremely similar experience to yours. Call the massage place. She did.
Jan 29, 2014 Crackersnap commented on Savage Love.
People also might be more okay with topping their partners if they realized they weren't obligated to be turned on by it in the way their partners are. I topped my partner for a while and enjoyed it but was actually surprised to find six months in that it had started getting me wet. You don't have to have sex with him when you top him - I assume the dom isn't.
Mar 27, 2013 Crackersnap commented on Savage Love.

Started topping my boyfriend after years of mostly sub. The trick was to 1) find out what sort of things he wanted done to him and then 2) buy a lot of tools., Amazon, Babeland, Good Vibrations - they all have good options. Also, work up to intense sensations slowly so you know your sub's limits, and don't hit along the spine. And beware cheap nipple clamps because them things can be *dangerous*.
Dec 6, 2012 Crackersnap commented on Savage Love.

I'm inclined to go with "it's not an orientation," but the multiple spectrums of sexuality idea brought up is intriguing. Ever heard of the vasopressin receptor gene?…

There may be some legitimate scientific evidence supporting the notion that poly is a biologically-rooted identity.
May 5, 2011 Crackersnap commented on Savage Love.

I used withdrawal for six years with six partners. No pregnancies, no other forms of BC (except for Plan B on a few occasions when they came inside me). The ONE TIME I said, "Fuck it, I'm on my period, just go ahead"-- pregnant.

I think withdrawal works, but I don't really want to do the expense or ordeal again so I just do the ring now. Might combine ring + withdrawal just to be on the safe side.

Apr 16, 2011 Crackersnap commented on SL Letter of the Day: Have At It, Gang.

Might not know about the marriages involved, but to be sure, just from reading this letter from a guy that wants to destroy what's left of his 15 year-old daughter's life, I can tell that the only person he gives a shit about is himself. Way to try to rationalize it, jackass. You sound just like my father, who was a grade-A narcissist and pinned the blame for his marriage-destroying actions on MY anger issues-- also, when I was 15. I hope you and he both get hit by a car.
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Mar 23, 2011 Crackersnap commented on Savage Love.

@79: Nice trolling. U go to troll school?