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Feb 21 cockyballsup commented on Milo Yiannopoulos: Girls Are In Danger When Adult Trans Women Use Public Toilets But 13-Year-Old Boys Can Benefit From Giving Head To Adult Males.
I can't believe I'm actually defending this idiot (MY), but can we admit to some hypocrisy here on the pedophilia issue? Hasn't Dan at various times mentioned his own positive experiences with significantly older men when he (Dan) was in his early teens, in terms not dissimilar from Yannopoulos's?

As someone who isn't attracted to anyone under 30, I don't have a personal stake in this, but just saying.
Feb 18 cockyballsup commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Straight Guy Can't Win.
Sportlandia, @72, just a tip, men can fake orgasm too, at least if the sex is penetrative - doing so is sometimes useful for avoiding this type of conflict.
Feb 18 cockyballsup commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Straight Guy Can't Win.
Sportlandia, @72, I can relate. I'm a gay guy who some of the time can't come - I tend go through phases where failure to come has, as far as I can tell, a psychogenic origin. I have experienced the same reaction from men, who really should know better. The passive aggressive sulk on the part of the partner: "Is it me? Tell me again it isn't me!" Of course this makes coming even more impossible the next time. It does feel like a can't-win situation.
Feb 16 cockyballsup commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Engaged to a Beard.
I love facial hair, and most men look much sexier with a beard. Also, nothing is better than the amazing feeling of being kissed all over or eaten out by someone with a soft beard...

Re. keeping them clean: Besides washing or rinsing it in your daily showers, if you are someone who gets food anywhere but inside your mouth when eating, your problem really transcends whether you have a beard.
Jan 23 cockyballsup commented on Here Is the Freeze You Ordered.
Why, when I visited as a tourist, did I just have uniformly wonderful interactions with everyone I encountered in Seattle?
Dec 28, 2016 cockyballsup commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: He's Scalded By Assumptions Other Gay Men Make About Bald Men.
@17, EmmaLiz, as a gay man I concur 100% with what you say. And you are right: most leather guys aren't into fisting. It is a really fringe interest even in the gay leather community, most of which is more a kind of drag practice, unrelated to extreme sex or BDSM. And though I can't speak for the Netherlands, shaved or bald heads are 100% vanilla in the gay community in the U.S.

I feel that maybe there is a real concern but maybe there is also some humblebragging here - does it really hurt so much that people express an interest in exploring kinks with you? Can't he wear clothes that put out a vanilla vibe if that is who he is? If the LW looks like he says, he should have no problem getting whatever type or age he wants as partners, so I seriously don't get what he is moaning about - even vanilla-looking people (often ESPECIALLY vanilla-looking people) have to deal with wrong assumptions about them all the time.
Dec 27, 2016 cockyballsup commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Scenes From a Marriage.
It's worth a try but toys work for some and are useless for others. A lot of people need the real deal to be in the right head space. I can't even enjoy a cock wrapped in a condom, so I'd rather be doing laundry than play with a dildo.
Dec 27, 2016 cockyballsup commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: He's Scalded By Assumptions Other Gay Men Make About Bald Men.
I know in our 20s these trivial distinctions can seem important, but really, people can't tell the difference between 26 and 34 because there is little to no difference (as the letter proves). But to turn the issue around, what is wrong with being though to be 34? That is pretty much the age of peak masculine health - and attractiveness in the eyes of what I think would be the majority of other young gay men.
Dec 21, 2016 cockyballsup commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Open & Free (But What About Money?).
Quitting to take time off with plenty savings and a golden handshake in his twenties. Let me see if I can gather any empathy for this entitled dickhead... Um, no... Fuck the 1%.
Dec 19, 2016 cockyballsup commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Hand Jive.
@Capricornius, @imc, though I wouldn't presume to speak for women, I get that as a gay man. I never come from bottoming, yet I adore bottoming, the longer the better, for hours if possible. A five minute fuck would leave me seriously unhappy.