Dec 22, 2015 moodar commented on SL Letter of the Day: High Hopes.
And maybe we should just lose the habit of hurting people and then shitting on them for acting hurt.  And maybe we should just lose the habit of hurting people and then shitting on them for acting hurt.  And maybe we should just lose the habit of hurting people and then shitting on them for acting hurt.

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Jul 22, 2011 moodar commented on To Tell the Truth.
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Jul 22, 2011 moodar commented on To Tell the Truth.
Ahhh, the good old porn issue. I've been on several sides of this particular debate. I discovered porn shortly after I discovered my clit, and have been a life-long consumer. When my twin brother and I were teenagers, we would trade porn collections.

My high school boyfriend and I regularly watched porn together, and did all manner of crazy sex inspired by them, not all successful!

Fast forward to my relationship with my oldest daughter's father. We consumed massive quantities of porn together, and at the time I was working as a porn reviewer for AVN and so had tons of free vids all the time. We also had good internet access, so ridiculous amounts of free porn. All was fine and good until after the baby came, and then it didn't matter if I was there or not... all he wanted was the porn. If we watched together and I tried to get in on his stroking action I was quickly rebuffed. I got angry about his porn usage because it was actively killing our mutual sex life. He is now married to a woman who made him get rid of *ALL* his porn.

I am with a man who does not consume porn. He masturbates, he is male after all, but he is so discreet about it that I never know. I masturbate frequently, and he knows I watch porn. He doesn't watch it with me however, and really doesn't want to know what kind of porn I like. When we were first together I actually had to show him my toys to demonstrate that none of them were bigger than he is. He has some sexual hang-ups (obviously), but we're working through them together and he is becoming much more sex positive. He loves sex, he was just steeped in the "Men like sex, women don't, and if they do they're whores" culture for way to long. But he's coming around nicely. ;)
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Jun 24, 2011 moodar commented on Bisexuals.
I've known my whole life that I am bisexual. I've been out with every partner I've ever had. I'm out with most of my family. I've had deeply satisfying emotional relationships with women. I've had deeply satisfying sexual relationships with women. However, I've never gotten both out of the same women. The women who have been able to have the deep emotional relationship with me have been deeply confused about their own sexualities and not ready to delve into the physical aspect of the relationship. The women that I've slept with have been, without exception, other bi chicks in het relationships. Lesbians won't give me the time of day when they find out I'm bi. I've been married, and am currently in a mono-het relationship, and that's fine. I tend to be with men long term, because for whatever reason they are the ones that truly accept who I am as a person and don't actually question my sexuality. I understand the rounding up to gay or down to het thing, but my experience has been that it's the outsider doing the rounding. I've NEVER rounded my sexuality in either direction. I'm bi. Period.
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